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vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
5/28/2017 10:31 am

Hell No!!!

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Lookinginnmi 48M
126 posts
5/28/2017 10:45 am

After 13 years in the army I'm not bound to let someone tell me what to do


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
5/28/2017 10:49 am

hell no, but not that it stops those like that. And that kind of blogger is to the fore as to why others have had enough of the blogging at least, if not the site overall


HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
5/28/2017 10:58 am

No Fucking Way!!

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DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
5/28/2017 10:59 am

I would listen to a suggestion that was presented about who I shouldn't see, but if it were a rule id walk.


platinum501 64M
29 posts
5/28/2017 11:05 am

Be your self be happy with peps that make you feel good


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/28/2017 11:19 am

I would out them.


funiithesun58 66M
1277 posts
5/28/2017 11:40 am

No way


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
5/28/2017 11:55 am

Hell NO!
That person is not looking for friends. They are looking for stooges. Outing them and their list sounds like a good idea.


If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


wjb1958 65M
3739 posts
5/28/2017 11:57 am

HELL NO


Red_Elf 50F
617 posts
5/28/2017 12:19 pm

I'm pretty sure I'm part elf and part Nox. I do not always do as I'm told...especially if someone is telling me who I can and can't associate with.

Fuck that noise.

This is an ADULT site. If people can't act like grown-assed adults, they need to go back to primary school.

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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Red_Elf 50F
617 posts
5/28/2017 12:22 pm

If someone is a good blogger, people read their blogs actively and willingly. They don't need to control their audience, let alone the audience's of others.

I don't know who is doing this, but I'm just going to say that imma judge 'em from right here and assume they are a shitty-assed blogger who can't boost their popularity by posting quality material and so they are stuping to fascism...kinda like a certain political figure that I never call by his proper name.

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
5/28/2017 12:23 pm

That would be a huge red flag for me and I'm afraid the person with the rules would no longer be a friend of mine. I actually know of someone who did this a few years ago....she wasn't a very nice person.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
5/28/2017 12:37 pm

no one except my Dom tells me what to do

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
5/28/2017 12:37 pm

I follow my own terms, and my own rules. lol

Thoughts from the Garden...


oralyyours702 64M
128 posts
5/28/2017 12:39 pm

post 3988840 nope, not going to even come close to happening without meeting first


Ifulickit78 45M

5/28/2017 1:56 pm

No way in hell would i agree to that


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
5/28/2017 2:16 pm

Adios Felicia

Rules are never properly followed, especially ones that order you who you can and cannot interact with.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/28/2017 2:22 pm

What would you do if you became friends with someone on a site like this, ...But are you really "Friends". Would you lend them your car keys, or give them keys to your home when you're on vacation?

and they sent you a list of rules for being friends with them... ... That doesn't seem very "Friendly" . AN exception might be , if you visit them, don't wear wool, or if you bring over food, don't put peanut products in the food. You know, reasonable stuff.

including telling you who you should not be interacting with? ... That's not reasonable. Also there are some people on here who have taken a great dislike to certain people and wish to make sure everyone dislikes them as well. Cranky fuckers these spreaders are.

Would you accept their terms and follow their rules? ... If the terms are reasonable. Like maybe, don't call after 9pm.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
5/28/2017 2:29 pm

Heck - I never even followed my parents rules! I barely follow the ones I set for myself!

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
5/28/2017 5:30 pm

This is a joke, right?

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ChampWashDarwin 43M
47 posts
5/28/2017 6:51 pm

I don't care if you're Miss America but no one is going to tell me who I should and should not be friends with. That sounds like a very possessive friend at worst.


aim2pleaseu952 71T

5/28/2017 7:59 pm

I would counter with my own set of rules starting with "don't tell me who I can or can't be friends with", then followed with several more I'm sure they couldn't abide.


coxsic66 51M
66 posts
5/28/2017 9:57 pm

Hell to the No !!! they cant tell you who to see or not and or talk too.. i would say thats being under the thumb!!!!....


Jspydr 50F
68 posts
5/28/2017 10:39 pm

It sounds like a domination. Tactics. If your willing to allow the individual to dominate you and you allow yourself to submit to their rules. Then I suppose it all depends on what you allow. Communication is a must, if your headed down that road.
All depends if you like being told what to do and if you allow it.
If not then nip it in the butt and set your boundaries.
Don't let it escalate.
Good luck...


dan_nl_2006 42M
1117 posts
5/29/2017 1:53 am

It depends on the terms and advice. But I usually dont take conditions very well. I like like my freedom. Friendship should be of equals without conditions.


ctrydeadlock 43M/47F
1 post
5/29/2017 3:15 am

Ok so I have a couple issues with this...#1 - I have what's called "Authority Disorder" although most people believe this is a disorder which involved Authority figures but it is not! It's all about the way you approach me. Demanding me or telling me what I can or can not do is a trigger that sets me off! Just the fact of him/her giving me a set of rules is a huge HELL NO!. However, if this person comes to me with a legit reason or concern let's say like "I would appreciate if you didn't hang around him/her because (any legit reason such as Him/Her has some kind of contagious disease or abusive) then an only then would I consider their request. And #2 - If you want to be my friend then be my friend not my Momma or Daddy! My ONLY daddy is Deadlock and not even he tells me who I can or can not be around!😉 ~Ctry~


ULIXBIG 69M
9288 posts
5/29/2017 4:30 am

I, and only I decide who I want to be friends with.
I'm happy to be yours Missy!


Geo9252 73M

5/29/2017 4:46 am

No one tell me who to see.


Tempsdesexe 42M  
2 posts
5/29/2017 4:59 am

That's a red flag,cause I am Dom and not sub, a sub may consider the worthy of that guy and if that's what she is looking for.


babeegurl70 53F
39 posts
5/29/2017 5:48 am

I wouldn't dis them, but I would explain that I make my own decisions, my own rules. They either accept that or they don't.

Later,


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
5/29/2017 6:09 am

If they are cool maybe I would bend some rules. I swing anyway, they would have to deal with that.


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
5/29/2017 7:13 am

Missy, I had someone do this to me a few years back. When I told them I'll pick my friends they got upset, and said well it looks like we aren't friends them. I guess she was right. She did try to make a lot of people miserable through the blogs, and lucky was one of the first people to get banned permanently.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


rocky2774 49M
565 posts
5/29/2017 7:28 am

I would definitely like to know more and then decide..

ROCK SOLID HARDY
ROCKY!!!!

rocky2774


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
5/29/2017 8:04 am

There isnae a 'fuck right off' option in the poll..........

I suppose, in a real friendship, the rules such as they are would be kind of mutually arrived at?

And


BulldogGuy13 47M
83 posts
5/29/2017 5:31 pm

...unless it was you Missy...I would be a good boy for you as long as you give me something really great in return.


hrnycumboyslave 40M
23 posts
5/29/2017 6:02 pm

hell no


kissing_softly 109F  
216 posts
5/29/2017 6:50 pm

Hell no!!!! They start dictating who I can be friends with, what else they gonna try to control? What I wear? What I eat? When I sleep? Where I work? No f&ckin way!!!


cumboi65 72M

5/30/2017 7:23 am

If you want to be my friend then you'll accept me as I am.


Johnmc2710 45M
8 posts
5/30/2017 1:11 pm

Its even more weird/scary for basically a stranger to try and dictate who you can or cannot see. Unless its part of some agreed upon role/role play its just fucking weird.

Even if we were to take it they were coming at it from a point of genuine concern for your safety, that is not the way to deliver the message.

I've one too Johnmc2710


toy20666 66M
105 posts
5/30/2017 2:34 pm

Oh No not me


JenniferWPB 44F

5/30/2017 4:59 pm

Some rules and boundaries are absolutely essential, but to have to check off a list and commit, this isn't the middle ages!


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
5/30/2017 6:42 pm

Hello no......no one will ever dictate to me who I can or cannot see.
If the relationship was to become more than a friend, then there can be compromise.


sexwhatineed 57M
1 post
5/30/2017 6:47 pm

Real friends don't tell you who you can or can't be friends with. They just accept that they aren't going to like all the same people as you.


toy20666 66M
105 posts
5/31/2017 7:23 am

Its only having fun flirting, but at least they may have an interest in you, but that don't mean they want to fuck you.


toy20666 66M
105 posts
5/31/2017 7:26 am

I don't want any rules and no one else does. That is so crazy on this site.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
5/31/2017 8:59 am

That last choice was always going to get the most votes in my view.


Wok2016 42M  
599 posts
5/31/2017 9:44 am

I've got enough difficulty keeping up with the 3 voices in my head, no room for outside influences!


loc2time 66M
79 posts
5/31/2017 10:09 am

I don't agree with putting a head trip on someone by giving them a list of rules, that's absurd, finding a relationship that builds on trust, respect and maybe even love is self-explanatory .... biggest issue is no std's if you enjoy multiple partners.


taliesins 53M
17 posts
5/31/2017 4:03 pm

Ultimately, it would depend on how much you value your friendship. Love transcends making or breaking all the rules.


resant78 45M  
3326 posts
5/31/2017 5:46 pm

That hasn't happened to me yet, but I think I would hear them out.


Tmike8926 34M
34 posts
5/31/2017 7:16 pm

personally i find that a little bit stupid to be honest with you.


xridah 35M
23 posts
6/1/2017 1:17 am

ganz schön wild aber geil...mmmmhhh


xridah 35M
23 posts
6/1/2017 1:17 am

ficken ist besser als sex


69smith409 49M  
142 posts
6/1/2017 6:22 am

Giant red flag on fire. Happens a lot more it should.

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Wolfusmaxus 61M
6 posts
6/1/2017 9:12 am

Friends shouldn't put restrictions on you no matter what. Guilt tripping is a different story. Shouldn't do it anyway.


cali999999 45M

6/1/2017 12:49 pm

stay away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Sachin56003 41M
42 posts
6/1/2017 10:21 pm

one is going to tell me who I can suck or fuck. If I were married it would be somewhat different


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
6/1/2017 11:46 pm

I would run so fast he wouldnt even know I had left. NO way is anyone going to put rules on me I put up with a controling husband for 30 years and NOT ANYMORE

LadyTeddieBear


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/2/2017 7:47 am

I've always considered myself the "shirt off my back" kind of guy.It would be rare to run into a doormat deprived type of individual.I would probably point them in the direction of where they would have the best chance of finding what they are looking for.Like Home Depot or Bed Bath and Beyond.

Using more than all the road!


KillerStuffAbhi 29M
23 posts
6/2/2017 8:51 am

Haha lol


Slim1der100 51M
123 posts
6/2/2017 10:05 am

That's definitely a red flag. Run for the hills, as quick as U can.😑


merxth100 73M
36 posts
6/2/2017 10:55 am

That's just not a relationship I would want to start, too must pressure.


hapamale 53M
68 posts
6/2/2017 12:31 pm

great question, depends on the situation, if it involves safety or privacy
but in general no one from this type of site should control you in that manner


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
6/2/2017 5:31 pm

I was thinking "HELL NO" Im glad you made that optional

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YoungNeighborMN 26M  
8 posts
6/2/2017 5:32 pm

Sorry, but true friends shouldn't do that. They should be happy with you being friends with other people as well.


slowrider8649 59M  
189 posts
6/3/2017 6:11 am

It sounds to me like some sort of control freak. It's never cool to pick and choose friends for someone else. It all goes back to the trust issue


Hoppinaroundyou 48M
37 posts
6/3/2017 10:21 pm

Yeaaaaa....no. No way in hell for that (unless that is part of a M/S sorta deal...)


Do_u_wanna_kiss 57F
223 posts
6/4/2017 8:05 pm

I'm sorry but WHY IS THIS EVEN A QUESTION?

If someone sent you a "list of rules" and you have to take a poll to determine if it's good, bad, or indifferent then you should just accept the rules because you obviously can't think for yourself!!!


Do_u_wanna_kiss 57F
223 posts
6/5/2017 12:01 am

    Quoting  :

No, I read the poll just as it's written...if you have to take a poll to answer your question then no assumptions are needed.....and my life is actually a lot happier than resorting to asking strangers whom I should be friends with...that my dear is quite sad but good luck with that


Passion8Fun 62M/52F  
3 posts
6/5/2017 12:13 am

I would say you need to pick your friends more carefully. My wife and I have our own set of rules but it's for us, not for someone else. How dare we put demands on another person? Obviously there are trust issues and unless ya'll are in agreement on exclusivity, no rules are necessary. Play like adults if everyone is consenting and ya'll will have more fun


Do_u_wanna_kiss 57F
223 posts
6/5/2017 3:40 am

    Quoting  :

Well, let's see....

You haven't been sent a list so you must be considering sending a list to someone else....not sure I'd want to be your friend if I were you...

AND

You haven't asked strangers whom to be friends with, yet here I am, a person not known to you, AKA "a stranger", answering a question you've asked...

Hmmm, anything else?


juankratos 42M
214 posts
6/5/2017 8:05 am

tat would not even be friendship. controlling is a no no.


wannadewitnc 64M

6/6/2017 9:39 am

Be afraid. BE VERY AFRAID!
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toy20666 66M
105 posts
6/6/2017 11:30 am

Hell no, not taking that from anybody


Azfuntime2017 53M

6/6/2017 5:50 pm

Just say NO!!


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