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is it worth chasing a old flame 10/16/2004
Aold flame wants to start again.after a few years of abscence
is it worth it.??//
0 Comments, 10 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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GF DRIVING ME NUTS!!! 10/13/2004
I am currently in a horrible relationship and am finding myself flirting with other women and pursuing other things with them. How am i supposed to make it any easier to break up without any feelings being hurt..... or stuff being broken lol
1 Comments, 71 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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When AdultFriendFinder/Alt.com became a real let down 10/12/2004
I had met someone that was on both AdultFriendFinder and Alt.com last fall. His words were so charming that I had become blind and hypnotized to realize to his negative actions. He was married to someone else that he had chosen to deceive and manipulate while he was going with me, all the while claiming, "I found my true love on AdultFriendFinder/Alt.com" concerning me. The first time we went out, he bought me a gold ...
1 Comments, 52 Views,
21 Votes
,5.72 Score
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here today gone tomorrow 10/11/2004
I was playing with a guy on the internet. He said all the right words and was planning a future or so I thought for us. Then we talk on the phone one day and he tells me he's not over his last love. She dumped him when the going got tough. Why can't men just move on and not hurt another woman?
5 Comments, 290 Views,
15 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Break Up 10/10/2004
Recently, My Girlfriend Of 17 Months Broke Up With Me. There Were No Warning Signs Everything Was Great. We Talked About Marriage, The Whole Bit,Quite A Few Times.
The Reasons She Gave Me Were Totaly Lame. For Example
She Said She Needed To "Find Herself".
Everyone I Tell That Too Just Laughs,
We Talked A Few Times On The Phone, The Other Day I Sent Her A Card For What Would Have Been Our 18 ...
2 Comments, 28 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Don't lead the girl on, you could be in trouble 10/6/2004
if you are not interested in a girl, it is best to just let
her know up front, instead of waiting until she has fallin
in love with you to do it. This way, you can avoid her trying
to frame you and don't have to worry about her dad's
shot gun.
0 Comments, 20 Views,
38 Votes
,8.13 Score
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RE:Why do i still love him? 10/5/2004
Hey. Just saw your article. I know exactly what your going through. My ex and I broke up a year n 5 mths ago. We went out for 8 mths, he said that if we were both single at the end of a year, we would get back together again. Hasn't happened yet, instead i am living with him as roommates right now or as he likes to call us "Fuck Buddies".
We are both still single but it doesn't look like we ...
0 Comments, 77 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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holding me back 9/27/2004
what do you do when your in a relationship of a very long time
but you want to experiment with other people but dont want
to hurt the other persons feelings. Can i say its just sex
? will that work?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
39 Votes
,6.33 Score
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Why should women accept it when men cheat on us??? 9/26/2004
I recently ended a relationship with a married man I was
with. I don't really know, I think I should be honest
to myself and say he ended it.
<br>
This guy was sleeping with countless women. I wanted to
believe that I was the only other woman he was involved with.
Even though I could see right through him.
<br>
My best friend (female) talked all the time that if she is ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
36 Votes
,7.81 Score
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Relationships ‒ Past & Present 9/24/2004
Relationships ‒ Past & Present
<br>
It's probably not love after only one month, or even
six months. It's lust. And while there's nothing
wrong with lust, attempting to base a long-term, complex,
often trying relationship on it isn't usually a good
idea.
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Believe, without question (but without desperation either),
in your heart and your head that he is ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
38 Votes
,6.89 Score
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A Poem About Being it Over 9/14/2004
"Let Go"
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Eventhough I love you
There's something you should know
It's hard for me to do this
But I have to let you go
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The past two years meant nothing
It was all just a lie
You could never forgive me
You ignored me when I'd cry
<br>
You think you are so perfect
You've never made a mistake
But take a step outside yourself
And see how ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
21 Votes
,5.23 Score
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treat them mean! 9/6/2004
rite y is it that when you find someone you love dearly they
always start 2 abuse the relationship. is the old sayn true....
treat them mean keep em keen??? realy true???
1 Comments, 23 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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What is the best way to breakup without hurting his/ her? 8/24/2004
Hello to all,
<br>
What is the best way to breakup without hurting his/ her?
7 Comments, 350 Views,
25 Votes
,4.35 Score
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online 7/18/2004
The worst way to break up is online! Guys don't do it!
that just as bad as writing a letter!
0 Comments, 26 Views,
24 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Break up in person? 7/9/2004
Do you think it's better to break up in person, as opposed
to over the phone?
0 Comments, 10 Views,
12 Votes
,4.21 Score
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men can really suck... 7/3/2004
im so tierd of men saying they love you just for a little ass
and then when they get it they dont want you anymore why is
that..if you just want ass then say it dont tell us u love
us and then say u dont mean it ...
1 Comments, 24 Views,
23 Votes
,5.11 Score
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Manners and Respect cost nothing 6/23/2004
Recently I got chatting to someone on here who is currently
living in another country. We appeared to get on like a house
on fire and so the texts emails faxes and calls all mounted
up. Things appeared to be going very well and we made an arrangement
to meet the next time he was due to come over to the UK. He appeared
to be an honest kind genuine person and against my better
judgement I ...
0 Comments, 46 Views,
33 Votes
,8.47 Score
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RE: Admitting you've cheated ..... 4/20/2004
You are absolutely right when you say, your admission of
infidelity may do more harm than good. By coming clean about
cheating, you may absolve yourself of guilt, by coming
forward with the truth and asking (begging) forgiveness.
However, your problem then becomes your partner's
problem (nightmare) and everything you felt plus more
gets dumped on your partner - the one you have already ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
25 Votes
,6.89 Score
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If there is a right way? 4/17/2004
Is there a right way to break up?
Should there be a mutual break up?
Should the couple just ignore each other?
What do you think?
Suggestions?
0 Comments, 54 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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When breaking it off with a female. 4/12/2004
*try to talk it through first.
*Be honest.
*Dont list our faults-it doesn't help.
*Tell us, calmly and rationally what went wrong.
*Try to be calm; yelling and name calling aren't a way
of breaking up, they are a way of causing MORE pain.
*Dont string us along uneccessarily for weeks, that makes
it worse.
*don't say sorry. It pisses us off more.
*break it clean
*dont promise ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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friend can't seem to get away from gf 3/29/2004
What is it with nice guys, not being able to get rid of the
women that screw around on them and don't respect them?
I have a friend who is the nicest guy in the world....treated
his gf like gold....she cheated on him often, hid it from
him forever, and he has now found out. I'm scared he's
going to get back with her though, i'm wondering if
anyone has some advice i could give him....to help ...
1 Comments, 26 Views,
19 Votes
,6.03 Score
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How do you let go? 3/29/2004
How do you let go of someone? How do you cure a broken heart?
Everyone says time - but I'm finding that time just
hurts... they have moved on and you're still left there
lapping at your wounds.
<br>
Take it one day at a time.
Time heals everything.
I'm tired of hearing this.
I want strong arms around me at night. I want to feel closeness
again.
2 Comments, 128 Views,
39 Votes
,5.92 Score
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Completely Oblivious To His Cheating 3/14/2004
We had dated for 2+ years he is in the Army. He just came home
for a week leave and he cheated on me and got caught and he
telld me that this has been going on since this summer. He's
cheating with his Sister-in-law's sister in law.
Needless to say I broke up with him and sent in on the plane
back to Georgia this morning begging for mercy.
3 Comments, 261 Views,
59 Votes
,5.37 Score
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Honour & Pain 1/17/2004
There is a thing called honour which seems to have fallen
out of fashion. Honour is what is owed to someone that you
may have once cared enough about to get involved in a relationship
with. Honour is telling that person the truth, no matter
how difficult it may be. Honour is showing your partner
respect and treating them as you would want them to treat
you. It is not having an affair and ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Never Fall For A Married Man 12/29/2003
That is exacly what I did. He wrote an ad seeking a female
friend and I answered it. It led to 7 months of wonderful
times and fine memories. All while I knew he was married,
he was with me most nights after work and went home to her
2-3 weekends per month. He lived and worked in different
towns. I stressed how much honesty meant to me and we vowed
to always be honest. He claimed he ...
1 Comments, 38 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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She Never Changed 12/29/2003
Many years ago I met a beautiful, sexy, funny woman. It was
love at first sight for me, but it took me a while to get her
attention. She was in the middle of a divorce, and had a boyfriend
(the cause of her divorce, she told me), so I didn't
really think that I had a chance, but our work threw us together
day after day, and after a couple of months we finally started
to click.
...
0 Comments, 106 Views,
197 Votes
,9.27 Score
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Why don't guy's tell the truth if they are in love...... 12/20/2003
I have been in a wonderful relationship for 8 years and he
was the first guy I had ever loved or cared about.. Well I
knew he wasn't hiself one day so I asked him if he has
cheated on me and he wouldnt answer me all he would do is ask
a question what if I did what would you do or say.... well
he didnt know how much I loved him and we talked and made up
and he told me why he did it... and ...
1 Comments, 155 Views,
32 Votes
,1.83 Score
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HOW? 12/12/2003
I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now. He lives
5 hours away and I've done everything for him. I heard
a rumor from someone that he has a girlfriend and is expecting
a baby. He denies the girlfriend part, but does not deny
the baby. I don't know what to believe. I love him to
death, but I don't want to be used. I don't know
anymore.
2 Comments, 170 Views,
48 Votes
,5.31 Score
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More Internet Etiquette 12/3/2003
I can empathize with the writer's disillusionment
upon finding someone lied to them after a few encounters.
Sounds like the person who lied enjoyed the meetings, but
is using AdultFriendFinder as it was intended...to expand their sexual
possibilities. The real problem appears that the person
left behind was looking for a relationship. Frankly, I'm
stunned by the profiles I've seen where it reads "Looking ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
31 Votes
,7.55 Score
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Breaking because of Bipolar Mood Disorder. 11/28/2003
I experienced a love that at 46 years of age I have never experienced
before, with my last boyfriend. Our relationship sort
of fell together, but it grew and grew. We didn't live
together, but saw as much of each other as we could. after
nearly 3 years we were both amazed at times when we just held
our forheads together gazing into each other's eyes
and almost orgasmed at the intesity, we ...
1 Comments, 18 Views,
19 Votes
,7.74 Score
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