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nolongerakid18 31 M
2  Articles
ever move on   12/15/2003

i moved here from az after i borke u pwith my gf and now she is always on my mind i can't stop thinking about her i think i love her what should i do


0 Comments, 186 Views, 31 Votes ,2.38 Score
should i stay or should i go??   12/15/2003

a friend of mind had the recent problem <br> his gf had an affair with her ex after she is with him. and she told him about it. of course my friend was pissed, but since he really loves the girl and so he doesn;t want to leave her like this. but then he is also pissed that he think he should do something to the guy and/or to the girl to show them a lesson. <br> also, ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 55 Votes ,6.81 Score
how to deal with all the cheaters.   12/15/2003

note: i read this from a email forwarding, but i don't know the source, and since it was in different language, i will try to translate as good as possible. <br> the husband had always suspected that his wife is cheating on him, being younger than him for 6 years, and with such an attractive body and gorgous face everyone must be interested in her. <br> also, she is ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 55 Votes ,1.43 Score
rm_Bodhisaht28 50 M
1  Article
So this is how it is...   12/15/2003

So this is how it is.... <br> This fear, hurt, sorrow and pain Cuts through me like a hurricane Lost to me now, she goes away Such anguish I refuse to display <br> It is better to have love and lost Someone once proclaimed They never counted the cost Of such internal pain <br> Sleepless nights and torturous days Every morning awakening with a ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
wannanow1000 59 F
1  Article
Iz it possible to maintain a friendship with your ex?   12/13/2003

Wow, what does one say about breaking up? It's certainly not an easy thing to do when you love someone. I'm going thru it right now myself. I find that trying to maintain a decent relationship in a small town iz not an easy thing to do. Well it's even harder when there are so many feelings still attached to the broken relationship. Example my ex and I have (not together) but our kidz ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Sweetcheeks6981 42 F
1  Article
HOW?   12/12/2003

I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now. He lives 5 hours away and I've done everything for him. I heard a rumor from someone that he has a girlfriend and is expecting a baby. He denies the girlfriend part, but does not deny the baby. I don't know what to believe. I love him to death, but I don't want to be used. I don't know anymore.


2 Comments, 170 Views, 48 Votes ,5.31 Score
Use the walk.   12/8/2003

If you're trying to break up with someone, then try taking them for a walk. Tell them that we're going for a walk. And while you're starting off your walk with them, tell them that this walk might not turn out to be that pleasant. Them start to explain how it's not working out for you. And then ask them do they know where this is going. The worst should be over by this point. But if it's ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 36 Votes ,4.96 Score
what to do to get noticed?   12/8/2003

Wahts going on? A quick question. What extra can you do to ge noticed on AdultFriendFinder besides upgrading? Any suggestions if so please let me know


0 Comments, 2 Views, 48 Votes ,6.83 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
I miss you   12/7/2003

Toon the shelf I wince and think of spring <br> Chimes and bells fill the season as I listen for your laugh <br> skies and life dance a difficult waltz such brilliant blues and chilly winter rains nervous hands and a heart stopping glance my friend, <br> <br> As every door opens I hope that it brings your smile <br> With ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 38 Votes ,7.55 Score
More Internet Etiquette   12/3/2003

I can empathize with the writer's disillusionment upon finding someone lied to them after a few encounters. Sounds like the person who lied enjoyed the meetings, but is using AdultFriendFinder as it was intended...to expand their sexual possibilities. The real problem appears that the person left behind was looking for a relationship. Frankly, I'm stunned by the profiles I've seen where it reads "Looking ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 31 Votes ,7.55 Score
lust or love   12/2/2003

when you are all loved up and sex is great you think you can survive anything that good ol life gets in the way and weakness show sex does not solve everything yes it helps the lust starts to dwindle and sex becomes a litle regulated the same fantasties become not so good any more finding that balance is hard do you swing do you avoid hard swap or occasional swap like every thing else when ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 67 Votes ,0.76 Score
What The Hell?   12/2/2003

I have always had terrible luck when it comes to guys. I cannot escape it...This last guy I was dating, he broke up with me last week because he was cheating on me. He even told her about me! He had started dating her a few days before he dumped me. That just sucks! I don't know what it is, but this always happens to me. There is a part of me that misses him, and a part of me that wants to ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 38 Votes ,5.81 Score
Turning the chapter   12/1/2003

I'm 30 years old, have a great job, and live a great life.But I have one problem. I can't seem to get it through my ex-fiancee's head that our relationship is over!!! Actually it's been over for over 2 years sexually!! When I first met her things were okay. I even took in her elementary school . I took them both into my place and paid each and every major bill of our household. About a year ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 17 Votes ,4.12 Score
Why would he hurt me   12/1/2003

I met this guy in 1999 and it was like love at first sight.He was everything a girl could want.Fine, sweet, and packing a bunch of meat.I was so and love and he said he was to. All a sudden I started hearing rumors of other girls, me being me I can't believe until I see. Why confront him.It was christmas and he brought me an engagement ring, something in my mind clicked and said I am not ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 31 Votes ,3.91 Score
rm_TXActor 54 M
5  Articles
Everyone is doing it!!!!!   11/30/2003

Well it seems that the mentality of people today is sure i'll get married if i don't like it i'll just get a Divorce. People really need to give their relationships a little more thought and COMMUNICATE!!!!! But today most people hold in their anger or let it out to that friend of the oppisite sex and then they wind up getting together and that makes things worse! <br> If you ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 25 Votes ,4.46 Score
Breaking because of Bipolar Mood Disorder.   11/28/2003

I experienced a love that at 46 years of age I have never experienced before, with my last boyfriend. Our relationship sort of fell together, but it grew and grew. We didn't live together, but saw as much of each other as we could. after nearly 3 years we were both amazed at times when we just held our forheads together gazing into each other's eyes and almost orgasmed at the intesity, we ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 19 Votes ,7.74 Score
rm_HoneyChile 46 F
2  Articles
RE: Why is it?   11/27/2003

You sound like what I went through. Met this really great guy, totally connected on the cerebral level, like cosmic twins. But we somehow didn't get very far because he's considering a new job and having tough luck dealing with the various women in his life. Its hard to accept such bad timing but ultimately everything happens for a reason. Its ok to feel sorry, the trick is not to dwell on ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
Breaking up, good or bad?   11/27/2003

Breaking up! is it good or bad i want to know because you cant win either way can you? if you`v ad enough of the relationship and call it of she`s in te nut house over it and if she breaks up then its you in the mad house so it`s good and bad just try and be on the good end of it


0 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
12do69l8r 61 M
2  Articles
love gone sour   11/27/2003

Love Gone Sour <br> What happened to the innocence? To the conversations that made sense? What happened to happy sensations? All replaced with fucking expectations. What happened to long walks hand in hand, Gasping for air in between making out in the sand. Love and friendship replaced by lies, jealousy, and hate. A once opened gate, Is now shut to love gone sour. ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
blacksnoopy77 32 M
1  Article
Easy Breakup   11/27/2003

If you don't know if you have enough reasons to break up with your significant other, then don't worry about all the things that you have gone through with them, add up all the negatives and you shouldn't have a problem.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
Too Many Other Fish In The Sea!!!   11/24/2003

After undergoing a recent separation myself and suffering much pain associated with it, I thought what better article to write but one that deals with separation. The pain of a separation is real, nonetheless, but as bad as it may seem, it does pass. Often we spend years in unhappy situations because I believe we get too comfortable. Change is not always pleasant but can sometimes be for ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
Pain And Recovery In Separation   11/24/2003

Anyone who has ever endured a breakup can understand how painful it is. The pain can be worse than any physical ailment ever for the pain of a breaking heart is so hard to curb. I can think of no pain greater than to be rejected or betrayed by the one with whom you shared your heart and soul. Let me assure you that this pain does eventually fade. Resentment and bitterness may abound at ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
rm_vardmhr 60 M
1  Article
Ladies tell me why...   11/22/2003

the lady that I loved and loved also told me that I brought out feelings and touched her heart only as one man has before.... and then told me goodbye. WHY?????


0 Comments, 87 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
leevo23 43 F
1  Article
hard love   11/21/2003

Being in a relationship is hard especially if there are up and downs. if you really want to stay in that relationship also be truthful no matter what.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 74 Votes ,7.66 Score
lovely469 43 F
9  Articles
help please..   11/16/2003

I was datin' someone temp! and we decided that we could never be.. But everytime I am around he is always messin with me. Why can't he just let me be??


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
cheat   11/12/2003

My girl friends was soo nice to me , she the best girl friend you could ever imagine. Untill after she broke up with me cause she thought it would help us out with our school I found out she slept with eleven guys , and made up with about another 5. She was a virgin when she first met me and then went all bad , now I cant trust any girl.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 147 Votes ,5.52 Score
Cheating works two ways   11/12/2003

I recently read an article on here about cheating , the writer stated that cheating is wrong. Well some may think so. My husband cheated on me 17 months into our marriage. I went into this relationship after being divorced for 11 years. We dated for 3 before deciding to marry. I told him that when I loved him it was a special gift to give someone , but he didnt belive me. I had known he was ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 186 Votes ,8.01 Score
rm_HoneyChile 46 F
2  Articles
The thought of breaking up   11/12/2003

People break up everyday... all over the world infact. Some do it with valid reasons - like infidelity, some just feel wronged, annoyed or even threatened. If the thought of breaking up creeps up your mind every now and then, you should realise that something is inexplicably wrong in the relationship. Your heart is telling you things your mind doesn't register. Worst yet, the mind tries to ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 96 Votes ,8.29 Score
lets just be friends   11/10/2003

well, recently i got the famous "lets just be friends". What she told sounded remarkably similar to what i told the last girl I broke up with, when I met the one that broke up with me. Now for me lets just be friends to be 100% honest means, I'm going to keep you around for back up and want nothing to do with you unless I am desperate. Yet everything seemed to be going totally fine this ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
swissebony 52 M
1  Article
What is a man supposed to do ?   11/8/2003

hi people, ¨ i've just been left heartbroken and it's way hard to get over it. Does anybody know what's best to do ? Thing is my ex Girlfriend went to the states on holliday. and there she met up with the guy she's been having online chats ever since. The first evening she she phoned me and even wrote me an email saying she loved me and misses me and can't be without me. But then ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 138 Votes ,4.83 Score