Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

ayungstudent 25 M
1  Article
From IM to I'm In   9/23/2014

How have you gone from instant messaging someone to meeting them? I need stories people!


5 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
grindit3 67 M
6  Articles
Using different Pictures   9/23/2014

How many People have been on the first date and find out the person had used a picture from long ago and have gained lots of weight and the hair is totally different colr


1 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Is it just me....   9/22/2014

Or do the rest of my fellow members on AdultFriendFinder get nervous when going on a first date (be it for just NSA sex or possibly a new relationship), I know that we all cope in different ways and show off different levels of nervousness but when I go to meet someone I really do get the old butterflies rumbling around in my stomach. What are your opinions on this?


5 Comments, 50 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
Fastest Hook Up   9/19/2014

I know most of us probably prefer to chat a bit online, then maybe meet for coffee, a drink, or even lunch prior to bumping uglies. That said, what is the fastest you've ever hooked up from initial contact to doing the deed?


6 Comments, 112 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
sex   9/15/2014

should i ask for sex?


2 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes
sweetboi1234 28 M
10  Articles
anxious   9/4/2014

First dates r like a job interview u dress to impress u always want to b on top if ur game u b nervous trying to make d best impressions on ur date


6 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
EvelynJMN 64 T
1  Article
Hosting location   8/31/2014

For first meeting someone new, do you host at your home, or do you find a hotel/motel to keep it a bit anonymous until you know the person better?

If you do use your home, do you first meet them at a public location and give them the home address there?

Thanks, Evelyn


10 Comments, 166 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
PUTITDOWN1 42 M
10  Articles
Sex on the first night   8/27/2014

I have been in relationships with women that I have had sex with on the first night. I wonder why so many women are against it.


9 Comments, 124 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
MovingLife 57 M
4  Articles
Had many of these over the years   8/25/2014

Some of My most Memorable First Dates are the Dates that Lead Now where fast . From Lousy Conversationalist's to Completely Distracted people . My favorite was the Lady who Ate her food so fast when we went out . And Thanked me as she said she had another Date to go to . When she was done choking on the food she had just Wolfed down . To the Lady who decide to tell Me during the Movie Previews ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
I'm sorry....   8/23/2014

if I've offended someone. It's the only thing I can think of for this site to approve an article from me and then delete it hours later.

I've sent more than five emails asking why this is happening but get no answer. So until they do I will not be submitting any more stories....and I've got lots to tell.


3 Comments, 92 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Laura9w 58 F
4  Articles
Art & Mod Sig West Nude   8/14/2014

I am Laura9w pleas dont forget to put my piture in the add in the article pleas dont for get me I am now in AdultFriendFinder


4 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
tubedinn 61 M
6  Articles
What's the easiest way to meet up for first time ?   8/14/2014

If I was to ask a person to meet up what would be the least awkward and easiest method beginning with first contact on a f f ? I'm a shy individual so everything social is difficult lol.

Any other shy people here found a good way of taking some of the awkwardness of a first meeting. Not for sex on first meeting... just a meeting to check each other out.

I tried meeting a couple ...


5 Comments, 113 Views, 7 Votes
rm_culmu74 49 M
3  Articles
Bitch is an overrated word.   8/9/2014

Not so long ago a tear travel down to my face when I learned the sad news that George Carlin passed away. This great performer, and some what philosopher and truly criticizer of this society was by far one of my favorite comedians and also who inspire others that became part of my list of people to listen, relax and laugh out loud. In one of his remarkable stand-up acts he came up with the 7 ...


3 Comments, 70 Views, 12 Votes
hunterf69 28 M
1  Article
first date   8/8/2014

never try to fuck on ur first date


3 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Samtaiwan07 29 M
12  Articles
Just an Introduction.   8/7/2014

While the dating scene may seem like a lot of work to one person, to another, it's a fun way to meet other people. But all things being equal, first dates can make most of us anxious. It's Just Lunch, a dating service for single professionals, surveyed single American adults and found that nearly 70 percent of men and about 50 percent of women won't bother with a second date if the chemistry ...


2 Comments, 61 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
tyruswoods1 42 M
3  Articles
sex on the first   8/5/2014

how many people have sex on the first date


8 Comments, 78 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_ravibe88 30 M
3  Articles
first date   8/3/2014

I M SO NERVOUS about first date its goin to be her move??? how will i know??? such topics dicussed here, tips too


6 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
rm_testprem425 43 M
5  Articles
FIRST DATE   8/1/2014

Purpose of a date[edit] The purpose of a first date is the same as the purpose of any date. Because they often set the tone for the relationship, first dates are highly important. As the study by Mary Claire Morr Serewicz of the Department of Human Communication Studies at the University of Denver, and Paul Mongeau of Arizona State University, states that first dates "represent an important early ...


3 Comments, 68 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
pattkinson 44 M
1  Article
How to maximize your First date via AdultFriendFinder   7/30/2014

Most swingers I know want to make sure that you click before you go all out. Usually you can meet in a bar or at a public place just to feel everyone out. People sometimes are not the same in real life as they are behind a computer screen.

I stress openness and honesty most of all. Its really important to be up front and put out all the rules of the engagement before you start playing. ...


3 Comments, 63 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
ToysRfun2010 49 C
19  Articles
1st BBC tonight....   7/25/2014

Omg!! Its gonna happen. Im kinda Excited & Scared all at the same time...Oh MY!!!!!!!!! I think I may be nuts.....Tell my story later


2 Comments, 174 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
Saranghae2 51 F
11  Articles
Bike riding "date"...   7/22/2014

Ended up meeting an AdultFriendFinder member this morning today. Met him near the George Washington Bridge, and we rode our bikes across the bridge and he took me to some park in ny along the hudson river and we rode for 2 hours round trip. I had a really great time actually... too bad i had work later on in the afternoon cuz i would have liked going all the way to the end of the park path way... and then turn ...


8 Comments, 196 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_prokrat 29 M
1  Article
whats ur favorite sex type?   7/22/2014

Lets start


3 Comments, 20 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
WOULDUMINDA69 52 F
3  Articles
Don't be nervous   7/21/2014

Have you ever canceled a first date due to nerves. Just plain afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Lived in a little box your entire life. Not sure who is going to show up? What is the worst that could happen? He or she might turn out to be a great life long friend, or an amazing lover ; ) I have made 2 great connections by simply saying yes.... had more no's then yes by the way. You have ...


5 Comments, 90 Views, 17 Votes ,5.67 Score
Saranghae2 51 F
11  Articles
Getting over the hurdle of the first date/meet...   7/13/2014

So, i have this unexpected first meet up planned out. well, its more in the works as we are trying to sort out the kinks of our meeting location. But i plan on meeting this person in the near future. and while i've always had an easier time meeting guys for sex... i'm meeting this particular guy with the intentions of talking first.

not my kinda thing...

but this guy ended up ...


6 Comments, 154 Views, 19 Votes ,3.65 Score
Saranghae2 51 F
11  Articles
getting to know each other...   7/1/2014

i feel i've read a lot of opinions from women that when it comes to first dates/first meets... that they prefer to meet a guy in a public setting in order to get to know him first. they prefer to meet at a coffee house or where ever and sit down and talk... and form whatever connection. they need that connection before they have sex with them. they are more interested in whats behind the man than ...


4 Comments, 124 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
rm_mitchvt8813 29 M
5  Articles
Drinks before sex?   6/30/2014

If you meet someone online that is interested in sex, what is your protocol for meeting up? Their place? Your place? Bar, hotel, restaurant?


7 Comments, 117 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
mrmrsshetty 42 C
6  Articles
Should we try first MFM?   6/28/2014

Love, sex and marriage. Oh, what a tricky dangerous business it can become. Ask yourself first before a threesome, what are your goals. Where do you want this to go, how far?, how often and with what restraint, etc. Once it starts can you control it? You two need a conversation. Can you live with the decision? What if the third party can't be shaken off so easily? What if they are lonely, or ...


10 Comments, 237 Views, 28 Votes ,6.53 Score
sexty9 44 M
2  Articles
Want to help me start a new Club?   6/27/2014

I have been reading about masturbation clubs on these forums. I just found out there is no such thing. YET. If you live in the (562) area code and would like to be a charter member, send me an email sexty9inwhittier at gmail dot com I am sure there will be a TON of guys that will email. Women- I challenge you you help keep this from becoming a sausage party. I will take up the task of getting ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
spicewetme 33 F
8  Articles
What Makes a Great First Date?   6/27/2014

think it’s a combination of all those things. You might not be able to wine and dine the date of your dreams. But if you act from your heart and leave yourself open to adventure, a picnic with budget wine, crusty bread, and olives might enable you to make the kind of connection you simply can’t sitting in a fancy restaurant or a high-priced musical show. That being said, however, I do think ...


8 Comments, 82 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
My wife's first date   6/27/2014

Sense we've been married my wife and I have only been with eachother until last night. I had got off work and she told me to come out and someone wanted to buy me a drink. I went to the local watering hole and her and a friend were playing darts which is common fun for us. After a few beers she told me about how turned on she was by one of the guys playing with us. I told her it was fine by ...


5 Comments, 282 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score