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At least say No! 3/13/2015
Just wish if you contact someone they would say No! Saying
nothing is worse.
9 Comments, 105 Views,
15 Votes
,4.36 Score
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How to let down some unwanted suitor. 3/4/2015
Ever have this happen to you.. You check out your e-mail
and find someone from the same sex hitting on you, or a sexually
unattractive member wanting you to have an encounter with
them. Face it the world is a crap-shoot. That's the
adventure called: romance. How to not to seem rude and decline
the offer. Just say in a polite manner, " I'm flattered that you have found me attractive, but I'm
not ...
10 Comments, 86 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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It's funny. 3/2/2015
I always appreciate it when someone says no thank you politely.
I don't mind if they say "no interest".
At least you know, there is nothing there. I do find it interesting
that some people, just stop talking with you. You never
know if they got cut off, or are not interested. So please,
be blunt and say one thing or another, don't just go
silent.
5 Comments, 30 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Mean People Suck 3/1/2015
I've been here for while. I've been successful.
I had a lot of fun, and I've met some very special ladies.
I think about each one as a bottle of wine, the bottle that
I shared with them: Chardonnay, Riesling, a particularly
good vintage of South African Wine, and yes even a Merlot.
I've also met some real jerks, at least on line.
I have sent at least 200 emails to which I received no ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Harder for men or women? 1/29/2015
Who has the harder time saying no, men or women?
5 Comments, 46 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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IM 1/28/2015
i am a charming guy trying to make conversation and too many
times i get someone just suddenly end an IM conversation.
isn't there a more polite way to say we should end this?
1 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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I remeber 12/17/2014
I remember once I was seeing this young lady and she was really
hott and I couldn't wait to be intimate her, after
about a month of seeing each other the time had come, she
took off her pants and before she could even get her panties
off the smell almost gagged, it smelled like she needed
an autopsy I told her I felt like we were rushing the situation
and I was outta there lol
0 Comments, 50 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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This has probably has been discussed alot but. 12/17/2014
How do you best say your not interested in another couple
in a face to face meet n greet? I have always respected being
honest with people but sometimes a white lie in these cases
are too bad. Tell me your thoughts ....
1 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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I think this might mess our friendship up 11/18/2014
Tell them that there a really great person but our friendship
means more to me then just a hook up
1 Comments, 61 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Saying No 11/13/2014
How would you go about saying no thanks to someone who is
incredibly persistent yet sweet at the same time?
10 Comments, 105 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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Too much 11/12/2014
Saying no just got to be too much now we just ignore profiles
that we're not interested in.
4 Comments, 71 Views,
13 Votes
,4.15 Score
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why bother 11/11/2014
I read a few comments about women politely declining men's
advances here on AdultFriendFinder. After seeing some responses posted
on Facebook and other sites, I'm not surprised women
say nothing when approached - I've seen a LOT of nasty
responses guys have made to a simple, "no".
Things like, "fuck you, you fat cunt"; "you're
ugly anyway"; "I'm too good for you anyway";
"why the fuck are you on here ...
12 Comments, 126 Views,
14 Votes
,5.38 Score
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No way 11/9/2014
We love the feature that lets us add a message on the IM before
we block them.
5 Comments, 58 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Using IM 11/8/2014
I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for
chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?
5 Comments, 108 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Testimonials 11/7/2014
Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given
you a testimonial?
6 Comments, 49 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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To thank or not to thank 11/6/2014
I use to love going on the IM but I rarely do now because all
it turns into is a steady stream of vulgar come ons from every
jerk ever put on this site. I not only don't say no thanks
I ignore them altogether and let them wonder if their IM
is working.
6 Comments, 63 Views,
18 Votes
,5.85 Score
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No 10/31/2014
Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially
with single guys.
3 Comments, 41 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Blocked!!! 10/21/2014
There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these
guys, just block them period.
3 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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No thanks. 10/15/2014
Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit
repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys?
We have jobs we don't need another one answering all
the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense
and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.
12 Comments, 77 Views,
19 Votes
,4.84 Score
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The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies 10/14/2014
Like anyone who has been on AdultFriendFinder for any length of time and
has tried to make contact with someone, I have received
my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies.
I have been told however, that my response to those "No
Thanks" replies is quite different than what most
women receive from those kinds of replies.
I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No
Thanks". I do not whine or ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Ignoring people if not interested or politely declining 10/11/2014
What is the outlook on this? Do people prefer to hear back
even if it is not the response they would like to hear or will
being ignored also do the job. Also if you have to deal with unwanted attention do you prefer
to let them know or simply ignore it and the potential backlash
of a "sore loser" along with it?
5 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Since you asked... 9/30/2014
As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks"
page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page
were all regarding the fact that women here often don't
give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed.
I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for
not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in
the future "why are women so rude" questions,
but here goes ...
8 Comments, 113 Views,
18 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Why does this seem to be so difficult.... 9/21/2014
I can understand that a huge amount of requests are posted
on this site especially in the chat rooms & IM, but so
many people just don't have the time to reply with a
polite "No Thanks", it's almost like everybody
is in such a rush or seem to hold themselves in such a high
esteem that it's below them to do so (you know who you
are people, admit it). I was always brought up to be polite and it's ...
7 Comments, 84 Views,
12 Votes
,1.39 Score
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CAN YOU CHANGE YOUR DIRTY SEX MIND? 9/8/2014
A couple of years ago I was really into nipples. Human nipples
in particular (you wanted to take it there). I loved the
way my partner’s nips felt up against my skin, and the
way mine felt against their man-chest and lips. I loved
the sensation and the eroticism of the little weird evolutionary
phenomenon. I think my curiosity turned into a playful
exploration of all the cool things you could ...
7 Comments, 119 Views,
22 Votes
,4.93 Score
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avoid shit 9/4/2014
Sometimes u just have to say no wat is for u is for u don't
rush life avoid unexpected stuff in like avoid say no
1 Comments, 28 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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It has to work for both or not at all 9/4/2014
Whenever I talk or chat with someone about meeting, I try
to make it very clear that even though it may sound like a
match and a hot time ahead, you don't know if it works
for you until you meet. Everyone has their own preferences
and attractions, I always meet with the agreement that
if it won't work for either one, it is a thanks, but no
thanks, a handshake, and good luck to you. I am not ...
4 Comments, 84 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Do men read profiles at all 9/2/2014
Yes i like both men and women but at this time I'm looking
for only women to play with but these men seem to think they
can change you mine by saying I need dick if i want dick i will
get dick but i want and need pussy no thank you another black
men s
8 Comments, 81 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Saying No 8/29/2014
When someone isn't attractive to you but keeps coming
at you how do you let them down easy?
3 Comments, 45 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Being Polite 8/25/2014
I wish that people on this site would try a little to be polite.
If somebody sends you a message and you are not interested
in them; just respond back and say that you appreciate their
interest in you, but you are not interested.
I do not think it is very nice to just ignore their message.
Think of it like this: they found you attractive enough
to take the time to send a message, you ...
13 Comments, 108 Views,
25 Votes
,2.69 Score
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not interested 8/18/2014
Why do ppl constantly message you especially on I.m when
you say your not interested and they just keep at it. I blocked
this guy and he changed his screen name 3 times just to keep
bugging me. Why is im not interested so hard to comprehend?
It bugs me with the persistance of some people. I hate to
be rude but sometimes thats all that will work.
5 Comments, 44 Views,
16 Votes
,2.25 Score
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