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The best way 8/15/2014
What's the best way for a girl to tell you that they aren't
interested? Do you want a response? Is an explanation needed
or is "no thanks" enough? Do guys realize that
many will send back a response that mimics the attitude
that the interest is given?
7 Comments, 55 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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BLOG 8/6/2014
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3 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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NO THANKS 8/1/2014
Strictly speaking "No thanks" would mean the
person is not giving you any thanks. With a comma, "No,
thanks", means "No, but thank you anyway"
or similar
1 Comments, 21 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Ways to not say "no" 7/23/2014
If you send someone a friend request and your YIM and then
suddenly start ignoring all messages, even those that
say "Hey, it's ok if you are not interested, JUST
LET ME KNOW, " that is rude. Please just say "Sorry,
I am really not interested in pursuing anything further
with you." Believe me, most people on here are mature
enough to say in response, "OK, good luck, "
and move on to the next ...
11 Comments, 70 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Hypocrisy? 7/12/2014
AdultFriendFinder has been a good platform for like minded people to get
to know each other...express themselves. But i guess the
reality is very different. Many a times the profiles are
misleading. The response one gets is so different that
what's in profile. Knowing well that with distance, different priorities
and in general the circumstances it would not be possible
to always meet in person. The big ...
4 Comments, 85 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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just say . . . 7/8/2014
no.
i've already had enough to eat.
thanks though.
k.
bai.
2 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
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The Polite No Thank you 7/5/2014
So, here you are on the instant messenger. You log on to see
who's chatting, someone flashes across your screen
with a hello, you quickly view their profile, you're
not interested! What do you do?
Well, from experience that my significant other has had
on this site, most people just ignore the other person if
they're not interested.
I am one of the types that believe that's not ...
9 Comments, 121 Views,
28 Votes
,6.73 Score
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Proper etiquette on saying NO 7/3/2014
There are alot of members who get tons of e-mails, flirts
and friend requests (especially women) on AdultFriendFinder, so much
that many of them just delete/ignore the sender. The proper
way to respond would be to just say "No thanks I am not
interested" copy this response to the cursor and
paste it when appropriate. If the sender keeps on sending
either block or report that person. When you do not respond
to ...
6 Comments, 67 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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No Reply Is a Message Also! 6/27/2014
That's what the blogger wrote on my blog awhile back:
"No reply is also a reply." I wonder about that
really? I mean, I know it could be, but I also have found that
days later after I have made an inquiry with someone by sending
them an introductory email, they respond and not always
in a negative fashion.
"I've just been so inundated by emails."
one sweet lady wrote. Another said she ...
5 Comments, 40 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Why is it so hard to reply 6/15/2014
Why do people, women, never reply to messages even if just
to say "sorry no thanks". Surely it cannot that
hard to do.
10 Comments, 123 Views,
18 Votes
,3.40 Score
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I listen to NO 6/14/2014
I listen when someone tells me no. I respect their choice,
and will ask, if it is appropriate, what led to their decision.
I prefer conversation to conflict, and think that feedback
allows me to make changes if needed. However, that doesn't
mean I won't ever ask again! There is a place for persistence,
and I have even been called stubborn (really). I had a work place encounter that ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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How to walk away gracefully? 5/14/2014
So, Im just wondering what you all thought the best way to
bow out of a set up 'meeting' with another member
is. For instance, I sent a lady a message, things went well,
decided to meet, and I had second thoughts so I sent a respectful
reply saying id changed my mind. Then i got BLOWN up. Didnt
think that'd happen but hey, maybe its just a one in
a hundred kinda thing...
4 Comments, 105 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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The power of saying NO / YES / MAYBE - and the courage it takes... 4/26/2014
Ok, so you are not interested. How about just say: "Thanks
- but no thanks". Believe me, it is more elegant to
say No Thanks, than to disappear after countless exchanges,
or a lame excuse, like "the ate my _ _ _ _ _".
We are all adults here (ok, that's a long shot). The
fact is that there's power in saying no. Where negativity
is an ongoing attitude, No is a moment of clear choice. It
announces, ...
5 Comments, 78 Views,
12 Votes
,1.92 Score
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When you say no to a couple 4/15/2014
Why is it that when you tell a couple that is trying to get
you to come in and have sex with the female in the duo "no",
they just can't accept that and feel the need to offer
you reasons why it would be a good thing?
I personally feel that when you marry someone, its not to
share them, at least not sexually and if I express that to
you, that should be your signal to back off... Respect ...
3 Comments, 59 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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Consent is Sexy! 4/8/2014
Consent is sexy! People should feel free to do or not do anything
in bed/the shower/while tied up/in public/etc. Besides,
how awesome is it when you get to hear them tell you "Yeah,
I want it!"
2 Comments, 22 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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women 4/2/2014
Women on this site are such ass wipes if u dou wanna take to
a guy wen he sends a message tel them that don't not send
a message and then I keep replieyin thinkin u didn't
get my massage and then al of a sudden am a freak yr such ass
hole
18 Comments, 167 Views,
18 Votes
,0.53 Score
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be nice 2/16/2014
give some kind of response, let them know u got message, or
they might keep mailing
10 Comments, 62 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Everyone On AdultFriendFinder has been really, really polite to me 2/3/2014
People have either said no thanks and said why, or they've
said, later and then contacted me later to get together.
I love this site, it's a great place to meet people.
I've tried some other sites and didn't have any
luck whatsoever.
6 Comments, 58 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them 1/23/2014
Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.
We've had a hard time with three or four single guys
- our add clearly states no single men but they continue
to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth
time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut,
a and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile
soon disappeared from AdultFriendFinder.
Since then I ...
4 Comments, 66 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them 1/23/2014
Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.
We've had a hard time with three or four single guys
- our add clearly states no single men but they continue
to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth
time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut,
a and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile
soon disappeared from AdultFriendFinder.
Since then I ...
3 Comments, 41 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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How many 'No Thanks' can you take? 1/20/2014
Browsing down the categories to see where I should post
this and the SAYING 'NO THANKS' heading waved
and whistled at me..... Been married 35 years and it is a very strong marriage with
some severe tests along the way; great highs, painful lows
and buckets of tears and laughter along the way. We are very close and are best friends and the only secret
I have from my wife is my registration on ...
4 Comments, 101 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Saying no thanks 11/16/2013
How do i say no thanks without gurting someones feelings?
0 Comments, 1 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Why don't people do this? 10/18/2013
When you try to im someone and they just ignore you it is really
frustrating. Could they just say, "thanks, I'm
not interested."? I guess the problem is if they accept
the im at all then if they try to say no the other person will
keep bothering them. What do you think? Is ignoring the
right thing to do, or should you at least respond with a "no
thank you"?
8 Comments, 79 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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too much 10/16/2013
Its healthy to have breaks now and then too much sex can damage
your health greatly, and a break can sumtimes increase
the pleasure
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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confused i am 9/23/2013
so many times men complain they do not get a reply from women
either by email or on the IM chat.
well explain this.... as i have just been lectured by an
18yr old boy that i was rude for accepting his chat request
and explaining my preferences to him, several times
he was then abusive and told me i was wasting his time by accepting
the chat
so we get criticized when we ...
11 Comments, 141 Views,
22 Votes
,5.41 Score
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Constructive 9/18/2013
Do you give constructive criticism when saying no?
1 Comments, 51 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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how to say it and not be rude 8/6/2013
there seems to be a culture that says saying no is insulting,
i have to disagree, asserting your right to make the choice
you want without fear of peer pressure is fundamental part
of life. admittedly i dont get to say no much on here!
0 Comments, 29 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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If there is just no attraction... 7/21/2013
One of the tougher reasons to just say, especially if a woman
on this site is showing interest and there is just no attraction
towards her, but in the few cases, I have tried to be honest
instead of just leaving it go. Thoughts?
4 Comments, 83 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Safe Sex 7/9/2013
Play Safe!!!!
2 Comments, 27 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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¿Qué no harías? 7/7/2013
¿Qué no te gustaría hacer?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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