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What do you do?   3/9/2011

Say you have been chatting and finally meet, the pics she sent are awesome and you are really looking forward to it. When she shows, you find out the pics are old and she doesn't look anything like that now....how do you say thanks, but, NO THANKS!


8 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
The Joys of Artfull Rejection.......   2/18/2011

1.) Man: "Haven't we met before?" Woman: "Yes, I'm the receptionist at the V.D. Clinic."

2.) In the department of "nice turn downs" there's this one: I'll have to think about that, thinking makes me tired, when I'm tired I want to sleep, not make love, so let's not, okay?

3.) Man: "So, wanna go back to my place?" Woman: "Well, I don't know. Will two people fit under a rock?" ...


2 Comments, 81 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
it is vital   2/15/2011

have to be able to say no thanks, but so hard to hear when someone is so good...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
biggnhard09 43 M
3  Articles
HOW DO YOU SAY IT WITHOUT BEING RUDE?   2/14/2011

i was wondering how you could say this without sounding rude or mean, help


5 Comments, 122 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
NO NO NO   2/13/2011

What does it realy take before someone gets the hint and understands that no means NO.


2 Comments, 45 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
mauiluvahz1987 32 C
1  Article
blah   2/1/2011

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6 Comments, 66 Views, 1 Votes
rm_2U4U2 60 F
6  Articles
Really dont know how to describe this   1/22/2011

but I really have a sex secret. Its like so bad thar I could loose my job and what is left of my relationship if u want to call it that.

I guess there is only one way of saying this. I been having sex with multiple men at the same time many times over. I love it and the more men there r, the more I want them fuck me and let thier friends know that I am a sex starved pussy who can take ...


5 Comments, 333 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
Rorshausk 28 M
13  Articles
gay guys   1/8/2011

im not interested in them. at this site they keep iming me asking me to show my ass or cock off.

pretty sick of telling them no. i need to go to a site that actually has chicks there


4 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_manz634 36 M
5  Articles
turning down a friend from becoming more.   1/1/2011

A few years back while going to college in fresno california i met a very pretty girl there while in political science class. we started chatting and as break time came along we went to the breakroom to get something to eat, while there we chatted and got to know one another a little bettter. she had been adopted when she was a and told me about her family background and her ambitions and goals ...


2 Comments, 165 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
Bill and Lynn   12/20/2010

For months Bill had been Lynn`s devoted admirer. At long last he had collected sufficient courage to ask her the momentousquestion."There are quite a lot of advantages to being a bachelor, " Bill began, "but there comes a time when one longs for the companionship of another being, a being who will regard one as perfect, as an idol; whom one can treat as one`s absolute own; who will be kind and ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
mrmoto3 57 M
11  Articles
The Magic Pussy   12/1/2010



Well I'm not sure if I should let you in a on little secret. What's so special about my horny wife that I just have to tell every one who can read the printed word ? Fair enough keep reading and see for yourself.I've changed the names of all involved. So if you shout out her name in the heat of well.....now you know.

My wife Carrie is absolutly drop dead ...


5 Comments, 335 Views, 11 Votes ,1.67 Score
a gentle way   11/25/2010

One of the most frustrating things on dating sites like this is the limbo that members put you in by not replying. You probably sent a letter, maybe even a follow-up or two. No answer + no reply = NO COURTESY. No one likes to wonder and guess what's going on, so just send a simple reply. You don't have to write a lengthy letter of explanation, just a few words. Keep in mind we are all SUPPOSEDLY ...


13 Comments, 288 Views, 29 Votes ,6.85 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
15  Articles
Saying no to Submissive men   11/6/2010

I'm having to say no thanks to guys that are looking to be submissive. I say that Two bottoms don't make a top. Im a feminine submissive bottom bitch and Im woman enough for a strong masculine man. I dont need someone else waring panties, waving their ass, and being a subby bitch.

I even put hat on my profile, that I am only a submissive looking for a dom.

Anyone else having ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
15  Articles
I HAD TO SAY NO THANKS IN PERSON THIS WEEK!   11/5/2010

So, I sgree to meet this guy form here. The last couple of meetings before him were actually pretty good. Not bad at all. One was just a little TOO horny, but still not bad. One was perfect. Another was good too.

But this one guy from this week..... omg. He forgot to tell me he was missing half his front teeth. Among other things. I was completely...turned...off...and felt that he was ...


3 Comments, 156 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Hnovaro55 34 M
10  Articles
So what guys have had to say "no thanks"?   11/1/2010

You always see talk about girls being the ones who have issues with telling guys no, but what guys have had to do the same?


0 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Sex and Marriage !   10/26/2010

Sex is the price women have to pay for marriage. Marriage is the price men have to pay for marriage. ...


2 Comments, 59 Views, 21 Votes
nonprobbwtranny 32 T
15  Articles
When you say no...and they persist...sometimes you have to get ugly   10/24/2010

Sometimes, I will get replies from guys that read my profile, notice that they are NOT what I am lookiung for, yet still contact me. I think thats rude and a waiset of time. They also get "beggy" and presistant. Sometimes, I have to get ugly.

What do you do in situations like that?


5 Comments, 72 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
DonJuan7622 40 M
10  Articles
how to   10/12/2010

whats the best way to say no?


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
JDam840 39 M
1  Article
no   9/27/2010

I just wanted to express that I am not, let me repete, I AM NOT, intersted in other men, there will be no dick sucking or the like with another man. I have posted that ts are ok, but the passable ones, the ones that have all the necessary parts to make them look like a woman. A fat man, that cross dresses, that has man boobs, AKA no brest implants, can not say he has size DD tits, they are still ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
pinktemptress 41 F
1  Article
wots the easiest way   9/22/2010

without sayin the obvious 2 a guy wots the easiest way ov sayin thanks but no thanks without hurtin any1s feelings lol x


4 Comments, 85 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Sending a reply message   9/6/2010

If a person sends you an email try to be nice enough to reply back even if you are not interested. Lots on here use points to send emails and are not sure if the email was even received. So be nice enough to send a reply.


8 Comments, 127 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
Traumst7 39 M
7  Articles
Question for the guys   9/5/2010

So I'm asking. Would it bother you guys if you were single, to sleep with a girl who was attatched?


2 Comments, 52 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
benallaboy 56 M
1  Article
Old photos   9/3/2010

What do you do when you chat to someone...get all friendly...then make the step and the person has posted a 10 year old photo? You cant say my how youve grown..


4 Comments, 121 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
ahhhh no........   9/3/2010

What is the best way to get away from someone you absolutely have ZERO interest in yet they think you are the stuff ? I have tried being nice. We are not "friends" she is just one in the crowd.


4 Comments, 60 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
on average...   8/25/2010

Curious ... I would like some advice on how to say "no thanks"; i.e. let someone down, especially upon meeting in person...in a nice way. I'm usually blunt and just say, 'I don't feel like there is a connection' or 'something is missing'.

But the ladies usually want specifics, and I don't want to be cruel to someone. I could use some good lines that aren't fake, but would help with ...


2 Comments, 84 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
studlyguy8922 39 M
2  Articles
this one is easy   8/2/2010

the simple way of doing it is just be as polite as you can and just simply say no thanks. if they cant handle it its not your problem and if they get pissy i say oh well its not the first time someone has been mad at me and damn sure wont be the last so they have a long line to stand in lol


5 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
racquel76 47 F
3  Articles
whymen call u a bitch   8/1/2010

Why is it that when a man sends u multiple messages trying to get your attention, and when you ignor them they call u afat bitch... I dont get it who was emailing who i the first place.


17 Comments, 274 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
???   7/31/2010

If a women is uncomfortable watching you masturbate, do you think:

(A) You need more time together ( She's a prude (C) She should of sat elsewhere on the bus


1 Comments, 35 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
xNBKxUT 40 M
1  Article
Walking the walk.   7/16/2010

Ok boys and girls this is just a quick little piece on "saying no". We all know we have been in situations that put us in a position of weakness or addiction, especially when it comes to matters of lust and love. How we comprehend and what actions we take regarding this weakness is what makes the difference between a healthy relationship and a toxic one. Any time you feel the need to justify, ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
guys   7/1/2010

ok so i got on the im last night for the first time and all the guys started trying to talk to me sorry guys its me and my bf and we r only looking for girls thanks for the interest but not interested in guys i already have a man and that is my bf and we dont wnt a three way with a dude. SORRY!!!


0 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score