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How to keep thing decent?   11/8/2019

Looking for some advice here. How do you say ‘no thanks’ after exploring a relationship and deciding you aren’t interested. I try be up front and honest but sometimes it leads hurt feelings.


1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
69fwbtg69 45 M
7  Articles
I'm looking   11/3/2019

What is so hard to say I'm not interested. People checking out people profile like they might b interested and yet when u im them they don't respond. I understand women get hammered on here but at least take the time to say not interested


1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Jayrsfsd 58 M
5  Articles
Ghosting and liars   11/1/2019

It seems pretty weird to me that people just can’t be most honest. The thing I hate the most it getting together or getting to know each other is liars. The minute I catch someone in a lie, I’m done, because they can’t be trusted. Just say no if you are not interested, don’t string someone along with lies and then ghost on them. I am busy with my career, I don’t have time to waste with ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
Jformeets 23 M
5  Articles
Common manners from some on here   10/29/2019

Am I the only one or are others experiencing similar problems? <br><br> I'll come on, have loads of views, flirts, etc from a single profile. I'll hotlist them back and begin conversaion. They respond and we talk, suddenly they go quiet. One asked for me to top fan them and then didn't respond to my private messages. <br><br> Then when I contact others on IM I ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 10 Votes ,1.00 Score
Mikejones789789 43 M
8  Articles
Ignored on messenger   10/29/2019

Great conversation. Things really seemed to click then nothing. That ever happen to anyone else?


7 Comments, 41 Views, 18 Votes ,2.44 Score
Britishlone 52 M
2  Articles
How do you say no nicely   10/26/2019

So you meet somebody in the bar and they arent how they looked in their photos or there just isnt a connection. How do you say no thanks without offending


1 Comments, 21 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
I never say No Thanks   10/25/2019

to points.. They are too valuable


1 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
barracuda05 54 M
5  Articles
It is time to bring back proper manners even to a sex siite.   10/24/2019

I have been surfing all levels of this site for 20 years now and it has become clear over the years that manners have declined and in some instances disappeared completely. Gone are the days where people would in the rooms and not have fight and bicker. Gone are the days where people could an IM or message and people would politely respond "No thanks" if they weren't ...


3 Comments, 23 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
to points   10/22/2019

points points points points points points points points.


1 Comments, 10 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
Justguy101 46 M
14  Articles
Not looking for sausage fest   10/20/2019

There must be 3to1 guys to girls on here guys posing as couple that’s gay. Hoping to pose as couple really be looking for guy on guy hook up..why don’t you change your profile to layer looking for m4m hook up stop wasting peoples time


3 Comments, 15 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
I never say "No Thanks"   10/15/2019

To points.. They are hard to come by on here!


1 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
points   10/13/2019

points points points points points points points points.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
Prylo193 41 M
5  Articles
Etiquette   10/12/2019

As a free member i wish i had a way to say thanks but no thanks when someone messages me


2 Comments, 18 Views, 13 Votes ,1.80 Score
also happens to men   10/11/2019

i was with a married woman, gorgeous, great figure and smile. she made me feel so comfortable i let her control and dom me. <br><br> we were probably 1 hour into it and she decides to tie me up and blindfold me. <br><br> i wasnt sure but she convinced me <br><br> she was erotically touching and licking my body, especially my nipples then she started rimming me. ...


4 Comments, 35 Views, 14 Votes ,1.22 Score
No Thanks   10/6/2019

So when you say no thanks in the most polite unrude way etc. 98% of the time they question it.. or they insist on how good it wiil be and how good they are. Everyone has preferences . If you're not what they want or prefer then let it be .


1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Thanks but not interested   9/28/2019

Such a simple response to a polite hello. Very refreshing when someone responds. Perhaps manners don’t apply here. Or, is it the points system or the poor programming that causes folks to appear pushy or frigid? Either way. One lady actually replied as such to indicate that she was not interested. That was refreshing.


2 Comments, 25 Views, 13 Votes ,1.80 Score
Pullmytrigger55 49 M
12  Articles
Free bonus   9/23/2019

I remember AdultFriendFinder.co.uk use to give u credits or 40 day gold or something


1 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
arealbadboy333 55 M
5  Articles
People that don't respond   9/22/2019

How hard is it to say "No thanks." or "I'll pass". With the sketchy performance of AdultFriendFinder.co.uk's Messenger, how is any to know if an actual message is getting through? I don't mind saying, "Sorry, not what I'm looking for at this time." but...nothing??? That's just rude anytime and anywhere. Your thoughts?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Saying "No Thanks"   9/22/2019

If someone writes you or even IMs you and you are not interested ... Please have the courtesy to say "no thanks" or "Sorry Im not interested". Dont keep them guessing if you are just busy. Thats how everyone on here gets annoyed and frustrated. Just a thought that might help others


5 Comments, 52 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
ttazz316 58 M
8  Articles
why do women not reply   9/22/2019

most of the women i send messages to don't reply they could at least say not interested or no thanks


7 Comments, 62 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
zeustaz316 55 M
4  Articles
why can't the women on hear juat say not interested   9/22/2019

what's up with the girls on hear they start talking ask for pics and then just stop if they are not interested why not just say that it is not a big deal just called manners and being polite


5 Comments, 39 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
Oscarmike12 30 M
6  Articles
Why   9/22/2019

Why don't more women just say "no thanks"? It can be frustrating to figure if a woman wants to meetup or not. Not replying in I get for standard users, but gold members don't bother. Makes me want to delete this


3 Comments, 28 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
Should saying "No Thanks" or "Not interested" be a common courtesy!?   9/22/2019

I feel if someone takes the time to acknowledge you, you should be taking the time to acknowledge them back even if your not interested! Do others feel it is rude to not respond to a message sent to you? Or am I alone on this one?


7 Comments, 49 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
alwayslookin8454 50 M
6  Articles
No Thanks   9/22/2019

Why is it so hard for some people to just say no thanks? It would make things so much easier.


1 Comments, 13 Views, 8 Votes ,0.93 Score
95hondacivic 51 M
8  Articles
not trying to be rude   9/22/2019

I am getting a lot of message request from people who i'm not interested in. I just say thank you but i'm not interested and people get offended and message back rude things. Does anyone else have this problem? If so, what do you do?


4 Comments, 40 Views, 18 Votes ,3.53 Score
LastOneDown69 38 M
1  Article
Is it rude?   9/22/2019

I've meet a few people and turned all but 2 down in person. They obviously weren't the type of person they said they were in their profile. Many of them take offense, why? If you want to a chicken and someone brought a duck you wouldn't accept it either. Come on now, right?


1 Comments, 23 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Side Piece’s Side Action on the Side   9/17/2019

So a few years ago I met a girl from this site. We hit it off, and decided to meet. She wanted me to meet her at her apartment that she was renting to be closer to her work. I agreed. <br><br> When I got there, I was immediately creeped out. There was no furniture, and the kitchen was empty. There were a few boxes around and a bed. We talked a little bit, and then she started smoking ...


4 Comments, 26 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
domkoenig 54 M
12  Articles
trust   9/16/2019

when someone close to u wants to get involved, a friends wife, i think ts the ultimate betrayal, u lose ur friendship and ur friend , so that time came for me , i said no thanks, but i never saw his wife in the same way again ever i had to turn down temptation , as hard as it was, and at times almost impossible , due to the fact it was put on a plate for u , so i turned it down flat. its much ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 14 Votes ,1.86 Score
Say no   9/11/2019

Maybe hardest and loveliest part oh well or oh this is hell whatever it is it is something


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes
gigelo2007 35 M
7  Articles
saying no   9/10/2019

Besides compliments, another thing the person you’re saying no to might appreciate is knowing why. Sometimes it’s best to be candid about your constraints. <br><br> Example: I can’t handle the meeting for you this afternoon—I’m busy onboarding a new hire and have a deadline I need to hit. <br><br> Example: This is a sweet pitch, but our doesn’t have a budget ...


2 Comments, 19 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score