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mahesh1975foru 43 M
1  Article
Woman looking for money   11/22/2018

Lot of woman on the site who are looking just for money. Not as a result of a friendship here but as the criteria to have friendship.


9 Comments, 57 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
6ftsexyFun 35 M
3  Articles
Bots! What’s up with the Bots?   11/21/2018

Okay so I can’t stand bots on sites. They drive me crazy! When your using a sit and you have to pay for sending messages, it really sucks when you start chatting with a bot, and don’t realize it at first. Why? Why do they do this? In all honesty I know why, but come on? Really?


2 Comments, 23 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
n2udeep00 44 M
5  Articles
If they are not your type.   11/18/2018

How do you say no without hurting anyone's feelings?


5 Comments, 50 Views, 19 Votes ,3.65 Score
siouxceedee 60 M
2  Articles
Be nice   11/7/2018

It seems people contact people but say nothing... of they just start with nasty openings.. Seem even though this site is to meet people ... I think being nice should be standard.. <br><br> fee members or paid members should get the same respect <br><br> be smart be nice be safe


1 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
fancysomefun65 56 M
1  Article
being polite when rejecting an advance   10/19/2018

i would like to think that i polite when taking to women on here about possible meets. so in return i would hope that a women can be polite if they want to decline your offer. i would also be polite and kind if i was to turn a women down. <br><br> what i don't like is people who are damn rude and even abusive in response. we could all be like that but its just not nice! ...


1 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
luvgluv19 75 M
28  Articles
Say it firmly but politely   9/21/2018

If you are saying "NO THANKS" Say it with conviction but not with harsh words. Understood some people simply don't get it because in their minds eye they are the most desirable of all partners. If they get TOO persistant Block them


2 Comments, 22 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
Thehorneydevel21 21 M
1  Article
Life is how you make it   9/15/2018

Life is how you make it if you want something to happen make it happen only you can do it no one else


1 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Lovemizer70 53 M
7  Articles
prositioned   9/3/2018

say no somebody might be in a sting


1 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
1couple4fwbs 45 C
3  Articles
Try to be nice to everyone.   9/1/2018

We get a lot of messages from others that we are not interested in. I always try and tell them that we are not interested but appreciate them taking the time to us. Our response is thanks for the message but we are not interested in you but wish you luck in your search. We have had some that say thanks you to. Then we have had some that get very offended and say mean things. I sorry but we are ...


4 Comments, 65 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
mattjoe22 44 M
21  Articles
Was punished for saying "No Thanks"   8/31/2018

I live in gated secured condo complex and I love using the workout room and hitting the pool but there is a woman who always appears and tries to engage in conversation. I have told her she is not my type, that I wasnt looking for a liaison and just wanted my peace. <br><br> An hour later, po-po show up and ask all kinds of questions about the lady. I didnt even know her name!! ...


3 Comments, 35 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
Chemistry   8/29/2018

So if you meet someone from here and find out the chemistry is just not there, how do you handle it? Do you treat it like any regular date, or because it started with an emphasis on meeting for adult fun, end the encounter quickly. Either way, i think its best to be thoughtful of the impact on others feelings.


3 Comments, 14 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Slickgf2412 36 M
1  Article
Cam play   8/25/2018

Why is everyone so afraid


2 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
lovethsebigtits9 45 M
3  Articles
when enough is enough   8/13/2018

when some becomes too pushy and you have to say no thanks, should be enough for any man or woman. letsd have some respect in this world.


2 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
Just Say I'm Not Interested   8/11/2018

I am trying to figure out why ladies won't say they are not interested. Instead some choose to not answer respectful approaches from a gentleman. This is very irritating. Most men can accept when they are not wanted, and is told so. Ladies I know you can do better. It's only a select few. Unfortunately some men think with the wrong head. .


4 Comments, 39 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
Be polite   7/24/2018

When somebody sends you a message about being interested in you, the least you can do if your not interested is just be polite and say “ no thank you “.


3 Comments, 25 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
How to say No Thanks, when meeting in person first time   7/8/2018

How do you politely say no thanks, once you've finally met in person, without coming off rude?


3 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Rogueadventure2 52 C
1  Article
ouch   6/29/2018

I love all the people on here that take these amazing pictures that fool you into thinking they look amazing. Then they send you a more real picture, this is when I feel lied to! LOL I know that makes me sound shallow but I have a wide sweep in taste and some of these pictures are scary. I always get these after chatting for a while and then I never know what to say. I don't want to be rude ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
tiredofthegames6 33 F
4  Articles
why do so few do this...?   6/19/2018

Why do so few people have the courtesy to say a simple "no thanks" as opposed to just ignoring a chat request?


9 Comments, 69 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
i wish   6/10/2018

i wish people has the respect to say no thank-you thank-you


2 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Hi   6/8/2018

How do you as a guy say no thank you to a woman who comes across as self centred and full of there own importance? Even though she is like this I have morals I stick by ...


4 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
IDang4321 35 M
12  Articles
saying no   6/8/2018

just say no like the say in school


1 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
up4goodtimennm 49 M
4  Articles
AdultFriendFinder IM   6/8/2018

Wondering what every ones thought are on the IM here. Is it just me or does it seem extremely rude to not at least say no thanks to a chat request. I understand some people get bombarded with requests but when I can see that it has been read at least say no thank you and move on.


2 Comments, 34 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
GiveMeCurves84 40 M
7  Articles
A difference between aggression and desperation   6/5/2018

I'm sort of torn commenting on this. <br><br> I love it when a woman is confident and strong or submissive and meek, either is attractive. It's hard to say no when someone is "desperate" though, too handsy, overly aggressive and sloppy...ya no thanks.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
tallman60314 41 M
16  Articles
Saying NO on a date   5/31/2018

I have made the experience that some people on here use old or fake photos to get dates. But i am also telling them when I meet them in real life that this is a no go and I stop the date right away. <br><br> Who also does this?


1 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
Monologue Responding to IM messages   5/20/2018

I'm sure you all experience monologuing when you chat and no one else answers. Such a waste of time. All it takes is for you to reply "no thanks" don't leave us hanging.


1 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Inheatat46 57 F
4  Articles
This Member "djhits20072 " Male 55yr Old Harassing Me   5/19/2018

This guy seemed nice in beginning conversation. We only conversated on the phone. After awhile, he began having notions that I would video us and put it on this site. If you go to his profile you will see that he is definitely not the type of male you guys would want to see in a video with me. Anyway, he kept talking about us being videoed. He began going over and over again about being videoed ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
totalreelielitt 40 M
4  Articles
Choices that have very fine sinus congestions in the end of the wrong turn I made...   5/19/2018

Is it so very negligent to leave your pets all about and without proper behavior? Really I'd rather swim in the ocean and find gold perhaps at the bottom of the abyss than date a bismol. That way the never ending battle I had with Achilles and guess what. I offer his soul back up to Zues himself. The little pixie liked to pick the wrong fights and found out that I'm superman compared to his ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
ebonylover2019 51 M
6  Articles
funny i would love how to learn to say no thanks!!   5/19/2018

saying no thanks must be a woman thing, cause as a guy, not sure I would turn down any woman who wanted to meet.

most women on AdultFriendFinder are very sexy, they may not have sexy hot bodies, but they do have sexy hot minds. If they don't I am not getting to the meeting part of chat!!

as long as women are hot any horny, and seem like they enjoy pleasing people sexually, I am all in!


0 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
RhymesWithSassy 45 T
3  Articles
SENSITIVE EGOS   5/19/2018

Some people just don't take "no thanks" very well. If someone gets on your nerves...

My advice:

When it comes to blocking memebers, don't forget to be on the FULL site (go through My Account, Blocked Members) so that you can check ALL the boxes to block them from seeing your profile (which contains multiple vulnerabilities). Just blocking someone on the MOBILE site only ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
LoveKMFDM 57 F
1  Article
Women need to decline more respectfully   5/11/2018

I've just been on this site a few months and I must say that in such a consolidated amount of time, I have learned how to respectfully say 'thanks but no thanks'. It's great to get so much response to my profile, but can be too overwhelming at times. I feel it is important to check in with my AdultFriendFinder email every day so that it doesn't pile up and get out of control. I look at it like ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 189 Votes ,9.39 Score