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Respeitar o não!   8/24/2017

A mulher como todo homem sabe, é de fases uma hora está com o humor dos melhores outra hora está com o pior possível, ela pode dizer que está afim de transar e no mesmo instante dizer que perdeu a vontade. Muitas vezes isso é de deixar o cara puto, porém o que sempre prevalece é a vontade de ambas as partes no que em minha opinião é requisito fundamental para a relação ser prazerosa, ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
kcock192 42 M
3  Articles
Proper way to say thanks but no thanks   8/24/2017

Not sure what is the proper way when someone approaches you on the site to say thanks but no thanks. I think everyone can agree that there is a certain physical chemistry involved in wanting to pursue a sexual encounter. I am not a picky person nor do I think that I am shallow or wanting a certain type. I am attracted to all women of all color and size and shape. That being said I find it ...


3 Comments, 65 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Is blocking okay?   8/13/2017

I've been interested in some members, then they constantly message and such to the point where I will block them to get some peace. If I decide to unblock them do you think it would lead to something or would they hold a grudge?


4 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Photo/Icon (optional)   8/12/2017

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2 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
clubg24 82 C
1  Article
JUST SAY "NO".   8/2/2017

Some people are just so sweet hearted that even on a sex site they have difficulty saying NO to someone who is trying to get them into bed. No one enjoys being rejected but...for something as serious as giving my body to someone for their pleasure and me indulging in theirs I feel a need to be extremely picky. Maybe if you don't get many invites and you are desperate to get laid your expectations ...


16 Comments, 155 Views, 31 Votes ,6.50 Score
Lukin4allofU 59 M
13  Articles
Is it so difficult?   7/8/2017

Whenever I make contact to anyone, If I am not going to enjoy time with them... 1. I don't lead them on 2. I am always polite 3. If asked to get together, it's easy to refuse and let the (person or individual) know I will not be meeting them.

Sooo, why is it so difficult for other to do that? Many members I have found do not ever let you know, we are not a match!

Shameful!!!! ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Rejection nicely   7/4/2017

Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type, I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...


4 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
toungeman4woman 68 M
7  Articles
AdultFriendFinder.co.uk CHANGES TP STANDARD MEMBERS   6/17/2017

As modt Standard members now know AdultFriendFinder.co.uk is charging point soe just about everthing. Im CHAT VIDEO VIEW ETC


4 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
izzynshe 68 C
1  Article
Manners   6/11/2017

We recently became members to this site... We have gotten several flirts, emails, and our profile has been viewed by many. We have been busy checking out profiles that fit what we are looking for and I must say we enjoy and are having fun already.. However there are a couple of single men that have commented and sent us emails and we have found that even though we didnt request single men they ...


7 Comments, 142 Views, 16 Votes ,4.89 Score
msusoccer 43 M
1  Article
emailing   5/28/2017

Why does it seem like on this site women are significantly more interested in just ignoring emails rather than saying no thanks. I get the emails that are short, 3 or 4 words, but when a guy takes the time to compose a thoughtful email, shouldn't that at least deserve some kind of response? What happened to common decency?


10 Comments, 77 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
Say No Gracefully   5/21/2017

If something is not working out, just let the other person know as soon as possible. When you tell them, be as gracious as possible. Thank then for what they have done for you in the past and/or pay them a compliment. Then, gently let them know that things are not working out, why they are not working out, and then tell them that things must end. When you tell them the reasons, try not to blame ...


5 Comments, 41 Views, 12 Votes ,5.98 Score
Lostinhorn 34 M
2  Articles
How to say no thanks   4/30/2017

Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or something like that. Remember they are people too.


1 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
tght14u03 50 M
5  Articles
Meeting up   4/30/2017

I'm beginning to think everyone is pic collectors. No one wants to meet without pictures. Remember when we didn't have the internet and we met for drinks. I have never had a problem meeting in person and either you are into them and great or one of you is not into the other and gi your separate ways. We're all adults. Once someone has had their identity stolen, fake profiles made and see how hard ...


3 Comments, 53 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
KYrod1991 32 M
2  Articles
No means no   4/30/2017

No means no damnit 😉


9 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
lickforher69 20 M
1  Article
no to a bad night   4/26/2017

when you are out partying trying to enjoy your night when all of a sudden you get a gut feeling knowing something isnt right with the girl thats trying to get with you fallow the gut on feelings that night i had that feeling then found out that girl that was trying to get with me got locked up for having a shit ton of drugs in her car


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Alovertolove8888 36 M
2  Articles
Have you?   4/25/2017

Have you ever showed up for a "meet and greet" that was suppose to lead to sex, but the person on the other end was not who/what they appeared to be online?

This happened to me and I could not figure out a way to say "no thanks, this isn't going any further than coffee" without making it very awkward....

Any advice?


3 Comments, 57 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
Lizzy6969 54 F
2  Articles
Doesn't matter how you say it..........   4/17/2017

It doesn't matter how you say it, the person on the other end 95% of the time gets offended. Its a lose lose situation. I have said it so many different ways, changed my profile so hopefully they wouldn't even email me (that does't work, men look at pictures), I have even just deleted the emails being rude and not saying a word but that don't help either cause they continue to email ...


9 Comments, 79 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
TabithaBeau 48 F
1  Article
being Gentle   4/17/2017

my own policy when it comes to turning someone down on an adult site is simply to say, no thank you, thank you for understanding. There is no advantage at a point of rejection to be offering specific excuses, as it only creates a defensive situation.


5 Comments, 37 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
sexylund119 38 M
9  Articles
no thanks   4/7/2017

when u say o any one for some of work u r happy


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes
What do you do?   2/17/2017

Say you have been chatting and finally meet, the pics she sent are awesome and you are really looking forward to it. When she shows, you find out the pics are old and she doesn't look anything like that now....how do you say thanks, but, NO THANKS!


8 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Sometimes you just have to say "NO"   2/17/2017

If there is just no attraction, yeah sometimes you just have to take one for your own team, and say thank you, but I don't want another. But if she is cross-eyed, dresses like she was straight out of the forties, has a hunch back and is overweight, then pay for the dinner, walk her to her car and just apologize you're just not turned on by her. Don't cave because she offers you oral sex, and when ...


2 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
nobody328 26 M
23  Articles
DIFFICULT TO AVOID   2/14/2017

I MYSELF FIND IT DIFFICULT TO SAY THIS WHEN SOMEONE INTIMATES ME


1 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes
ussion topics are for original mat   11/21/2016

ussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, please observe the HornyWife Terms of Use. If you see material that is inappropriate for HornyWife, or that may have been publish


1 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it?   11/16/2016

SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it? A few days ago, at the Lakers home game / season opener, I ran in to a good friend and an acquaintance I've know since high school. It was nice to see them and talk to them at the game and catch up since we don't talk on a regular basis, except at a gathering, social event or party once or twice every year. They were both in ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Is being crazy contagious? - There is always a price you must pay!   11/16/2016

While riding the train downtown last evening (yes we now have light rail trains in and around Los Angeles) to the Lakers / Brooklyn Nets game(at Staples Center) my phone blew up (figuratively not literally) with texts from not one but two former booty calls. What was strange is both of the booty calls have from time to time tried to reconnect with me a time or two in the past. I have ...


4 Comments, 144 Views, 27 Votes ,5.45 Score
Male Head vs. Female Head   10/19/2016

This is a repost of an blog I did in 2012

I am just flabbergasted about a NSA that I had with a dude here on AdultFriendFinder.co.uk. 1st of all he did not read my post. 2nd he was selfish and lazy. 3rd he wanted me to give him head but not return the favor. 4th he had the ordasity to get upset about it. 5th he still wanted to have sex after I left.

This is a 38 year old man (now he's ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 17 Votes ,6.24 Score
SAY NO THANKS AND RUN WHEN...   10/15/2016

Hi my fellow AdultFriendFinder.co.uk brother and sisters,

I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying to have fun and meet great people.

We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives. Be sure to keep ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 19 Votes ,7.08 Score
Sffungentleman 53 M
1  Article
What is the code phrase for saying no?   10/7/2016

I have met two different couples in the recent past and during our initial meet they were both very excited and said they wanted to hook up and have fun. A few days later, they said "we are really busy right now". Now this isn't my first rodeo and it just seemed a bit odd that they were suddenly too busy to connect up. I presume this is swinger code for "no thanks". Can anyone verify this? I ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Saying No   10/4/2016

It seems allot of people like to say no and sometimes they shouldn.ty


1 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Secretsforus2015 42 M
5  Articles
The Best Ways to Say No!   10/3/2016

So I am always curious what a woman on here believes is the "best way" to say no to someone she is not interested in.

I know a fair number have decided not responding is a solid route to get men to stop messaging them. At least eventually.

Women, what have you found is the best way to let a man know "I am not interested' but at the same time get a man to stop messaging you over ...


5 Comments, 29 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score