SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it?

2016-11-01

SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are
they worth it? A few days ago, at the Lakers home game / season opener, I
ran in to a good friend and an acquaintance I've know
since high school. It was nice to see them and talk to them
at the game and catch up since we don't talk on a regular
basis, except at a gathering, social event or party once
or twice every year. They were both in exceptional spirit.
laughing and joking like we were still in high school. It
seems they had just scheduled a trip in December to the Dominican
Republic. That country / destination just seemed a bit
random, they also had told me it was their first trip to the
Caribbean. Why the Dominican, when there are several other
places that seemed more... let me say it this way "exciting".
They could visit the British Virgin Islands, St. Lucia,
U.S. Virgin Islands, the Cayman Islands, Turks & Caicos,
St. Kitts & Nevis or Jamaica or Barbados.

Then
they spilled the beans about their plan. It was a for a sex
vacation or sexcapades. My mouth must have dropped, especially
when they suggested that I could come along. A Sex Vacation?
Of course while in my twenties (my swinging years), my older
lover and I visited Sandals in Jamaica in the early 80s.
It was a swingers resort filled with a lot of drinking and
sex. yes it was truly an experience that has helped shape
my life today, yet that is not what they are talking about.


These guys are planning on flying to The Dominican
Republic and visiting a resort there that has promised
them sex sex and more sex! Here is a quote from the website
they are using: "The Playboy Mansion of the Caribbean
and you are Hugh Hefner! Our Exotic Adult Sex Vacations
are created with your fantasies in mind. Our sex resort
is a place where you will physically transport to a piece
of paradise where you may and will do as you’d like. This
includes: party, relax, unwind and be pampered by beautiful
girls at all times. Our companions are warm, friendly and
very beautiful girls whose ultimate goal is to cater to
your specific wants and desires during your sex vacation."


My smile actually masked my frightened laughter. These
guys were the Jocks of the high school we attended. My friend
was one of the most popular guys in our high school, dated
the cutest women and so many knew and liked him even at the
surrounding schools. What happened for him to want to fly
3000 miles to get fucked by young tender nubile women at
a cost that might not be in only money?

Five
countries account for 96% of all people living with HIV
in the region: Cuba, the Dominican Republic, Haiti, Jamaica
and Trinidad and Tobago. And remember, Haiti and the Dominican
Republic share a border. The odds are good, since the
goods may be odd. What the fuck were they thinking.

For
the same money, if they are paying for sex, Las Vegas is 4
1/2 hours northeast. They could rent a great room at the
Bellagio or the Wynn or even MGM and be serviced by three
four or five women....for less money and less possibility
of contracting a communicable disease especially a deadly
one. This one spins my head and makes me think how many men
take these sex -cations?

Several guys I know have
flown to Thailand, Indonesia, Cambodia and even the Philippines
for vacation and while they were there like many red blooded
and horny american men, they have met and fucked women there.
I have done the same on several of my vacation, so that is
nothing new for me. My purpose of the trips abroad to Asia,
Middle East and South America were usually for curiosity
of the country (Nile River, Brazilian Carnival, Rain Forest, Golden
Triangle <-- I am sober was just curious about the beauty)
its culture, sightseeing, historical significance and
at least for me the sex always happens often when travelling.


Perhaps, they are right and my viewpoint is completely
tilted and off track. Maybe my sexual adventures that happened
in my younger years are not a compass to assess theirs. Our
lives all have taken a different path. The sexcapades,
at least for them it is happening (maybe again) right now.
Let me check my passport and schedule, it might just be fun
for me too.... naw, i'll pass.