I'm 6'5" and a slim 219lbs, good looking. I've always looked younger then my age. I'm kind, have a great sarcastic sense of humor. I'm very open and forthright, yet polite. I'm not arrogant, nor am I the controlling, jealous a-hole type. I live by three basic rules: be kind to others, seek to do no harm, and try to help others if and when I can. I'm affectionate, sexually uninhibited, experienced in both vanilla and lifestyle dynamics, having been a sensual Dom since I was 15, trained by an experienced submissive who "topped from the bottom" until I was trained. I was never a Dom in my marriage though, setting it aside to live a more vanilla for love sake, but enjoyed the benefits of my past experiences.

My Ideal Person I'm looking to meet an intelligent, emotionally mature (not age specific), good hearted kinky woman who is sexually uninhibited, open, who has a naughty imagination and kinky disposition to hopefully become good long term friends with, meet up to play with often, as our schedules permit, without trying to control or manipulate each other. Something clean (just be honest, there's no reason to lie), supportive, as a real friend should be, mutually beneficial, without drama or yuck. Kindness, trust, loyalty (as friends), and communication are the most important elements of the dynamic I'm looking for. I'm divorced after 18 years of marriage. I'm not really interested in revisiting such a negative dynamic or rushing into anything exclusive. Let's enjoy each other. I enjoy my freedom, but I do miss the "yum" of having an intimate sexual companionship and lover, going out and having fun, without "yuck" or drama, demanding rules, defining strings immediately, who would like to melt into each other, intimately play, explore fun with even outside the bedroom, and have both deep and sometimes silly conversations with, if you'd like. Life's too short not to enjoy more laughter and less seriousness. And if something more organically takes us next level then great. If not, I'm a good and fun friend to have.