Thanks for taking the time to read this, I guess we're all here for one thing, but why not have an enjoyable time, take the time to explore each other a bit, and have some discreet fun, who else needs to know! After many years married, now find myself in a realtionship without any affection, with a wonderful , but thinking all the time, there has to be more to MY life - selfish it sounds but its not, I adore my , but need to get some sanity beyond the crazed, abusive hell hole my relationship has become with his mother. I long for soft sand between our toes as the waves lap around as, the sun setting on the distant horizon before..... If you fancy making that a reality, and hey, we all need to escape these hectic city lives, be it for an evening or maybe sometimes longer, then make contact. Look forward to hear from you

My Ideal Person I'm after a person who knows themselves and is comfortable with that, someone discreet, witty and able to hold their own in conversation.

You'd like oral, certainly being on the receiving end of caressing, nibbling and sucking - there's no better turn on for me than to find those special arousing areas on your body and to bring you off first.

Update - July 1 onwards, err, moved to Perth, after 12 yrs in Malaysia, time for changes in my life!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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