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fredericton_4fun 34 M
10  Articles
This has probably has been discussed alot but.   12/23/2014

How do you best say your not interested in another couple in a face to face meet n greet? I have always respected being honest with people but sometimes a white lie in these cases are too bad. Tell me your thoughts ....


1 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Using IM   12/20/2014

I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?


5 Comments, 108 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
kimdan4fun 41 C
10  Articles
Testimonials   12/10/2014

Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given you a testimonial?


6 Comments, 49 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
superhead1973 51 C
10  Articles
No way   12/6/2014

We love the feature that lets us add a message on the IM before we block them.


5 Comments, 58 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
funcouplerus2 41 C
5  Articles
No thanks.   12/6/2014

Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys? We have jobs we don't need another one answering all the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.


12 Comments, 77 Views, 19 Votes ,4.84 Score
prettyinpink838 40 C
6  Articles
No   11/19/2014

Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially with single guys.


3 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_3xthefun99 54 C
4  Articles
Blocked!!!   11/10/2014

There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these guys, just block them period.


3 Comments, 44 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
Why does this seem to be so difficult....   10/26/2014

I can understand that a huge amount of requests are posted on this site especially in the chat rooms & IM, but so many people just don't have the time to reply with a polite "No Thanks", it's almost like everybody is in such a rush or seem to hold themselves in such a high esteem that it's below them to do so (you know who you are people, admit it). I was always brought up to be polite and it's ...


7 Comments, 84 Views, 12 Votes ,1.39 Score
It has to work for both or not at all   10/17/2014

Whenever I talk or chat with someone about meeting, I try to make it very clear that even though it may sound like a match and a hot time ahead, you don't know if it works for you until you meet. Everyone has their own preferences and attractions, I always meet with the agreement that if it won't work for either one, it is a thanks, but no thanks, a handshake, and good luck to you. I am not ...


4 Comments, 84 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
MovingOn001 64 M
7  Articles
The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies   10/14/2014

Like anyone who has been on AdultFriendFinder for any length of time and has tried to make contact with someone, I have received my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies. I have been told however, that my response to those "No Thanks" replies is quite different than what most women receive from those kinds of replies.

I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No Thanks". I do not whine or ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
Ebonyforwhite 43 F
1  Article
Do men read profiles at all   10/14/2014

Yes i like both men and women but at this time I'm looking for only women to play with but these men seem to think they can change you mine by saying I need dick if i want dick i will get dick but i want and need pussy no thank you another black men s


8 Comments, 81 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
mauiluvahz1987 32 C
1  Article
blah   10/11/2014

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6 Comments, 66 Views, 1 Votes
XXXplaypal 62 M
12  Articles
Manners....   10/11/2014

Why do some people not takes a minute to say no thanks if they arent interested. It's only polite...


8 Comments, 62 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
sckrump1234 48 M
1  Article
be nice   10/11/2014

give some kind of response, let them know u got message, or they might keep mailing


10 Comments, 62 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
bryan01962 54 M
3  Articles
Why is it so hard to reply   10/7/2014

Why do people, women, never reply to messages even if just to say "sorry no thanks". Surely it cannot that hard to do.


10 Comments, 123 Views, 18 Votes ,3.40 Score
NuBoyToy4u 38 M
10  Articles
just say . . .   10/7/2014

no.

i've already had enough to eat.

thanks though.

k.

bai.


2 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes
luvgunn27 38 M
10  Articles
why so hard   10/6/2014

Why is it so hard for someone to just say "no thanks" It seems to me that most people in general like to avoid confrontation and would just rather ignore a person then to respond.


6 Comments, 76 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
TomRakewell 31 M
10  Articles
Constructive   10/6/2014

Do you give constructive criticism when saying no?


1 Comments, 51 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
BBWFREAK856 41 F
9  Articles
not interested   10/6/2014

Why do ppl constantly message you especially on I.m when you say your not interested and they just keep at it. I blocked this guy and he changed his screen name 3 times just to keep bugging me. Why is im not interested so hard to comprehend? It bugs me with the persistance of some people. I hate to be rude but sometimes thats all that will work.


5 Comments, 44 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
sweetboi1234 28 M
10  Articles
avoid shit   10/3/2014

Sometimes u just have to say no wat is for u is for u don't rush life avoid unexpected stuff in like avoid say no


1 Comments, 28 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
MorganJ 53 F
1  Article
Since you asked...   9/30/2014

As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks" page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page were all regarding the fact that women here often don't give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed. I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in the future "why are women so rude" questions, but here goes ...


8 Comments, 113 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_KidP09 27 M
2  Articles
Saying No   9/22/2014

When someone isn't attractive to you but keeps coming at you how do you let them down easy?


3 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_Fort4084 32 M
24  Articles
women   9/19/2014

Women on this site are such ass wipes if u dou wanna take to a guy wen he sends a message tel them that don't not send a message and then I keep replieyin thinkin u didn't get my massage and then al of a sudden am a freak yr such ass hole


18 Comments, 167 Views, 18 Votes ,0.53 Score
Wittyneel 52 C
3  Articles
Hypocrisy?   9/18/2014

AdultFriendFinder has been a good platform for like minded people to get to know each other...express themselves. But i guess the reality is very different. Many a times the profiles are misleading. The response one gets is so different that what's in profile. Knowing well that with distance, different priorities and in general the circumstances it would not be possible to always meet in person. The big ...


4 Comments, 85 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
portorchardcoup 57 C
4  Articles
Isnt Easy   9/13/2014

you email you chat you share picks and you decide that you would like to me... You make the plans and you meet and on the surface all is cool...but under the conversation and laughter that lil spark required to get naked isnt what it should be.....you know it will never happen

been there done that...it just isnt easy since the underlying reason for meeting was to get naked.....I would ...


3 Comments, 83 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
kittykitty05 48 F
3  Articles
The best way   9/13/2014

What's the best way for a girl to tell you that they aren't interested? Do you want a response? Is an explanation needed or is "no thanks" enough? Do guys realize that many will send back a response that mimics the attitude that the interest is given?


7 Comments, 55 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
rm_testprem425 43 M
5  Articles
NO THANKS   8/18/2014

Strictly speaking "No thanks" would mean the person is not giving you any thanks. With a comma, "No, thanks", means "No, but thank you anyway" or similar


1 Comments, 21 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
kcutemilf 38 C
1  Article
The Polite No Thank you   8/12/2014

So, here you are on the instant messenger. You log on to see who's chatting, someone flashes across your screen with a hello, you quickly view their profile, you're not interested! What do you do?

Well, from experience that my significant other has had on this site, most people just ignore the other person if they're not interested.

I am one of the types that believe that's not ...


9 Comments, 121 Views, 28 Votes ,6.73 Score
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3 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
DGator69 57 M
3  Articles
Proper etiquette on saying NO   8/10/2014

There are alot of members who get tons of e-mails, flirts and friend requests (especially women) on AdultFriendFinder, so much that many of them just delete/ignore the sender. The proper way to respond would be to just say "No thanks I am not interested" copy this response to the cursor and paste it when appropriate. If the sender keeps on sending either block or report that person. When you do not respond to ...


6 Comments, 67 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score